How many times someone has broken your heart?
By velentina
@velentina (891)
Mauritius
July 29, 2012 9:41am CST
It is really painful to endure a broken heart. My friend is passing under this phase. She has a boyfriend who left her for another girl. This is the third time he has broken my friend's heart. My friend is very sad. I tried to console her but she is not convinced. She wants to commit suicide. Have you ever been in such a situation?
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6 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
9 Aug 12
Third time is too much for you friend to learn from her experience. One or two is possible, but why the third time? Do not keep faith so blindly and always keep a safe distance from everyone and that is the way to be happiness. I think now she must have understood of it. And also, it is because of your fiend's open mindedness got exploited. We need to be stiff and firm and to be bold enough to face the circumstances. If we keep anybody as our friends, such situations are quite common and be selective and DO NOT give chances to everybody to enter into our minds SO FREELY and if they get a chance, they will enter and do the .... and go.
So, advice your friend that the best life is still ahead and ask her to SHOW THAT she can live still better, and if possible, live better and better and show it as a challenge and revenge. By telling you itself, I am myself getting more strength and courage. Even I had passed through such situations, but I over come all those phases and taught all of them a 'better lesson' and made chances to feel 'jealous' on me.
All the best and you need to divert your friend from such ugly thoughts and bring back her to the real life and love your friend with full heart. As long as you people are around, why she need to be worried. You can give more life and better hope for tomorrow...
@Aggy91 (49)
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3 Aug 12
Yes, i have been heart broken and the situation is both stressful and depressing but over some time i just overcomed these feelings.How? i put away everything that reminded me of the past relationship eg pictures,enguaged myself in hobbies i loved most like sports and cooking and spent most of my time with myfriends.This helped me shift my forcus from the heart break.Ask youfriend to try this out and i me sure she will fell better and always remind her that guy who broke her heart is simply a loser not worth her heart.
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
aw, that's so sad. i had my heart broken for so many times, but each time, it only made me stronger and more mature. i look at the situation as advantage on my part. i do cry a lot whenever my heart is broke, i don't feel like getting up the bed, but it doesn't last long. i always get up and face the reality, and overcome it. i pamper myself, i go to a parlor or spa. i watch wonderful movies. i look at the street children, i think about the people who were in the hospital fighting for their lives, and tell myself how lucky i am.
@GemmaR (8517)
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29 Jul 12
I have only had my heart broken properly once, and it was by somebody who I was never even with in that way. It was a guy who I had liked since I was 16, and it took me a long time to be able to tell him the way that I felt about him. But I eventually managed to do so, however it soon turned out that there was no way that he felt the same about me, and I will admit that it left me feeling very lost and unsure of what to do with myself. But I managed to get over it and am now with someone else and don't hold any other feelings for the guy in question at all anymore.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
29 Jul 12
umm i have not experienced a broken heart as yet. But I will be broken if my husband betrays me. lol. but he has not as yet and I hope never will. I think one has to be strong and don't give your heart to anyone who doesn't care about you.
I sorry to here about your friend. Third time! how is she coping? just motivate her that he was not the rite one. One has to kiss many frogs before meeting the prince or princess. So she is still yet to meet the prince. Have a good day
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
30 Jul 12
I only had a very painful broken heart just recently.It's true that it is not easy. I've drunk and cried a lot...it's okay to release the pain but right now i'm okay....In that situation all we need is time to think and ponder things....We must always look the brighte side. Maybe he is not really the one for you, someone is destined better than him for me...........I slowly stand up and enjoy life to the fullest....It is like the song...I have the right love at the wrong time.