Against all odds
By gracie923
@gracie923 (162)
Philippines
July 29, 2012 11:30am CST
All of us were shocked by the decision of my friend to go live with an addict boyfriend whom she had relationships for just a month. We heard a lot of bad character of this guy but she seemed blinded by the love. Her mother doesn't like the guy, the siblings and the family. Now I heard that she's been beaten by the guy and that she's so becoming a bad person. Now I know it's only her who can decide for herself and we can't do anything about it but to pray for her. For me, if a relationship will have no blessings from the family then I guess it's not worth it. Only bad things will happen because the channel of blessings won't flow smoothly. Those energies emited by the family will hinder them to be happy... I can say so because I have known a lot of couple who have same situation with her.
4 responses
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
30 Jul 12
I also believe that when the family or parents do not seem to approve of a person, there might be a valid reason for it. They must have seen something that the girl didn't. I believe that parents always want what's best for their kids even to the point of being meddlesome. But sometimes, it is also good to hear them out once in a while and actually try to give them a chance to explain their side. who knows we might learn a thing or two from their experience. They're not really trying to be controlling; they just want us not to make the same mistakes that they did.
I hope your friend will get some sense into her head soon. This guy seems to have bad news written all over him.
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@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
it's true that when your parents or the family do not approve of someone for you, you would just live a miserable life with that person. aside from the fact that parents' intuition about your partner are more likely to be correct, parents' blessings are also very important. i hope your friend will eventually awake from the situation she's into right now, and i wish she will find someone better, and that her life will finally be alright.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
I agree, that in every relationship need to be blessed by the parents because it is a sign of happy life. It is okay if she can teach his addict boyfriend to be a good guy but if not, that is a really big no no to the family specially to the parents and the bad thing is there is also a big possibility that the guy may influence him to become a bad person too.
