your lover cheats on you. do you give him a second chance?^^

I experienced this situation in my ex boyfriend before and I learned so much from it. Now, if my boyfriend would cheated on me. I will never forgive him or give a him second chances. I hate the feeling of being cheated and I promised to myself that I will never be the same again. I will never forgive someone who will break my trust and love.

Honestly, my answer is no. I learned the hard way. I gave my evil ex a second chance but it did not work. Remember this, once a cheater, always a cheater. They will never learn or change. The only thing that will change is that they will learn how to hide it much better as time goes on.

People say that I'm a fool for believing and giving my partner not just a second chance, but the third as well. I think it's different when you're boyfriend and girlfriend versus being husband and wife. I understand you belonged in a long-distance relationship. It's tough enough to have a relationship that's close together, how much more with someone you haven't really met yet? I think you could try to forgive, but it will always be tough if you haven't met yet. Further, you can just be friends for now and let him do something to patch things up - like perhaps going to you and meeting you personally - if he's really serious about you. But if you feel that you no longer have the heart to look at him and don't want to go through a lot of adjustments because of a broken trust, then perhaps it would be best to put a period and end the "relationship". I think every love story is different. You cannot really say that since it worked for some, then it would work out for you too. In the same way, if it didn't work for some, it doesn't necessarily mean it wouldn't work for you too. After all, there's no perfect formula for love. But remember that when we open our hearts to someone, we are also opening the possibility of these people hurting us. So it's your call. But I think you should meet first face-to-face before deciding to move the next level. Have a great mylot experience ahead!

I won't give him the second chance, never...i know it is hard way but i can't do forgive for it.

As I told my husband when we first got together. If he cheats I'm out I don't want to be with him any more I could never trust him again even if I still love him it's clear that he doesn't love me and he would do the same to be if I cheated on him.

I cant give him a 2nd chance if he cheat on me. when he cheated its mean that he can not respect me as his Gf and he is untrustable. If he want another GF he can break with me 1st and tell the reason, its better than cheating

Hi sweet love forever: I believe in second chances. However, as you mentioned, when someone cheats on you it's difficult to recover the past trust you have in this person so it would be really difficult. I think my reaction would be to end this relationship, give some time to think and let the wounds heal. Maybe if our love is stronger we could start again from the beginning. But at least I have to take a time to deal with my pain. It's not simple. ALVARO

It was one thing I never knew when it was happening. My husband told me about it after more than 10 years that he did go out and slept with other women. Although it was so long ago, it still pains me inside knowing that he did that to me. Since it ws long gone, I just shrugged it off.

Everyone deserves a SECOND chance or even third , all you have to do is to be fair enough .. Be fair with yourself and to him .. Clarify everything to him and listen to what your heart says :) be brave to forgive and consider it a challenge .. A challenge that could give your self a chance to live hapilly ever after , just like a fairytale .. I do believe that fairytales to exist if only you'll insist :D

I cant imagine myself when I discover my husband cheats on me and I don't even know what to do if he do it to me. My husband and I both cheated by our ex's in the past and it really painful and hard to accept. Maybe I cant forgive my husband if he cheats on me because he already knew how painful it is and it is unforgivable.

For me, I will not give him another chance, he cheated one's but who will know if he will do it again and again. I am a person that not much give a second chance to my partner ^_^

Hi loveforever, no i will not forgive him, if i will forgive him once,he will definitely take advantage.

well,I'm a man,if my girlfriend cheats on me,I mean if she falls in love with someone but not doing anthing,I would give her a chance.If she slept with a man,I'll break up with her.I will give you a suggestion that we shouldn't judge your the other half just according to a kiss,you know,what's the most important is that whether he still loves you.If he doesn't,you couldn't forgive him.If he loves both of you girls,you should know who he loves more,if it's you,give him the last chance.if he cheats on you again,do not forgive him.you know,a man do not like a girl,he is too easy to control himself,so give him at least one chance.so how my suggestion,hope it can help you.

hey friend i will not forgive that girl and i will hangout from that relation because she has cheated me and i hate cheaters.

I guess that guy was so guilt stricken with what had happened to him that he couldn't face his girlfriend right in the eye, he would be bound to admit what happened and ask for forgiveness indeed. Then again, if the situation was quite out of the ordinary, say he got drunk and some girl took advantage of the situation, knowing that women these days are so free and liberal for most parts of the world, of course not all women in general, it can happen. In that case, I guess you wouldn't call that cheating. Because cheating would imply that the act which was committed, the one who did it was aware that it's wrong and the person still went ahead to do it even against their better judgement. Now, if that person really cheated and realized later on that what he or she did was wrong, I think second chances are out of the options to give to the person. Cheating is done willingly like how students would cheat on exams. They can choose to cheat or not to. So if they really care for the person who they are currently in a relationship with, they would do whatever it takes to be not in any situation wherein they would get tempted to cheat or even if they are in a particular situation that indeed has many temptations surrounding them to cheat, they would still be firm and strong about not cheating on their partner.

I have no lover so no experience but I can say if once start cheating then it is very hard to trust on the same person. If this will happen with me then I will never give second chance.

Frankly speaking. Some guy cheat on U for the first time and U never give him/her a chance, U are a hothead. Same guy cheat on U once again and U still give him/her chance, U are a di(khead.

Hi friend, it is really hard to forgive great mistakes, but if our love is sincere, we have the ability to give second chance to them. But if they take it as an advantage and continues their cheating activities surely we must keep distance from this kind of persons

Humm this is really an interesting topic for me really i will for give them and even give them second chance but the problem with situations like this is there will never be trust any more and this lead to fights over little matter maybe him talking to another and you feel yes he cheated on me last time so he can do it again or maybe the guy sees you talking to some other and feel yeh u want to cheat on him just because he cheated on you. so a times really is hard to give someone second chance.so my advice to all guys and ladies when u don't want the relationship any more is better your let it go than cheat. Not everyone can stand it.

well for me i give him a chance.Then i talk to him the reason why i give a chance.Then if ive noticed that hes not making any sign that he really appreciated the chance that ive given to him then thats the time to tell him that its better we end our relationship.