Do you make your friends laugh and felt uneasy about it?
By desiree91
@desiree91 (515)
Malaysia
July 29, 2012 9:15pm CST
I spent the day with my friends yesterday and we had so much fun and laughter. I'm also glad that they enjoyed my company and that I was able to make them crack up over the simplest of jokes. They really do have a simple sense of humour. I knew just about the right trick to trigger the laughter in our group.
But at the same time, I also felt uneasy at the end of the day. I thought perhaps I might have cross some line. Perhaps I was annoying them to a certain extent. Perhaps I talked too much. What if they found it off-putting? That might be untrue, considering how much fun we had. But I always overthink things. I just want to be careful next time, we'll never know if others felt uneasy about our behaviour. I know that a person with so many words might be considered a fool. I was making a joke about everything, but the good thing is they laughed at it all.
I guess I'm overthinking things.
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5 responses
@sender621 (14890)
• United States
30 Jul 12
I have always liked to make my friends laugh. It was something that always came easy to me. zit never caused me ay discomfort or uneasiness. Sometimes i think that my friends just expected ne to bring the laughter into the light.
@chiyosan (30181)
• Philippines
30 Jul 12
I am usually just am like that with friends, i love to comment and have fun with them via conversations and i do joke around too if you ask me. If i joke around and i have offended anyone, i am sure to feel uneasy about it and i would just be not happy about what i did and would feel i should have not done it anyways... but of course we could never take it back already. he he So this is really what i think is why i am often trying to be more careful with what i say in front of others - knowing we could neverr take them back no matter what we try. he he =)
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
30 Jul 12
Yes I think you really overthing,spend the time with friends should not consider too much cause it is the leisure time,you just talk what you want and enjoy that moment,in my mind,cross the line just say something offensed,if you did not said something that offensed somebody and that is OK,pls remember,they are your friends,not supervisor or stranger,you no need to concern too much and just to enjoy your leisure time.
@paulli3 (312)
• China
30 Jul 12
yeah i often make my friends laugh when we are talking. you know, i think a humourous man is popurlar and everyone will like him. so i am glad to be a humorous man. and to be honest i feel uneasy about it sometimes. becuase if people think you are a humorous man, they always think you will make them laugh. and if you don't make them laugh or feel funny. they will think you are boring and become unpleasant. and you must know you shouldn't say too much. if you say all the time,peple will be uncomfortable. it is so important, too
