Are you a conversation starter?

I always start the conversation specially in train then lots of person are join one by one. We enjoy the conversation because everyone share their views on my topic. I start a topic like education, politics, crime etc.

Since young, I am a very introverted person. Even the teachers at school commend me for being quiet (well, of course teachers prefer quiet students compared to rowdy ones! ), but my parents thought that that could be a bad thing too. Because of my shy and introverted nature, I found it hard to make close friends. I am not very good at initiating conversations, because I always find it a hard thing to keep thinking of questions to ask the other person. Most of the conversations where I initiate the discussion would end up with me asking all the questions and the other person answering those questions without asking me any questions at all. I totally envy those people who have the people skills and can stir up others' interest to answer and ask questions at the same time. So, even on myLot, I am more of a discussion responder than a discussion starter, as I find answering questions/discussions a much easier task than starting one up.

yes, most definitely i am. i am able to talk to strangers and find out things about them. i am also good at a party and usually find things to talk about. i often find that you can people more at ease by asking them questions about themselves. most people like to talk about themselves in one way or another.

good day jobfindonline, with regard to your query, well it depends on the situation. as there are times, i do start the conversation easily. and make it spontaneously flow. but there are times, it depends on the person that i am going to deal with. as different persons have different views and opinions.

I try to start conversations with others. I just try to think of basic things to talk about when you first meet a person. It's usually not to hard for me to do this, unless I feel that the person is a hard to talk with. It's also good to be a good listener. We don't want others to think we talk too much either.

I like communication and if the front person is not talking with me then I try to start if success then continue. If person is rude then leave it not interest for conversation with those persons who are rude and proudly.

I am a bit shy, but I do gauge the person I am with if I can start with small talk. If the initial reaction of the person is ok, then I can start the conversation flawlessly. But if the person I am with is the conceited type, I dare not waste my time striking any conversation with him or her.

Among my closest family and friends, i always seem to be the conversation starter. Maybe its because I want the interaction with others that i get the basll rolling. It seems to come naturally and easily for me as well. it never has to be a forced communication and other people are ready to jump right in.

Hi I'm a talker to if no one else start I do the starting it be nice if other people were not afraid to talk but i get to know a lot of people this way now im trying to be a writer that going take time people number fear today is publc speaking i learn that in some club i belong to.

I do not usually initiate the conversation. I am more laid back and a listener. People come to me all the time for someone to talk to. They know I will fully listen to them. I like this quality about myself. Others know they can count on me for that and it's nice to know that. =) That's why when I need the advice or to talk I come here to do it. I have no one to listen to me, they are used to it being the other way around so I just come here when I actually need to talk! =)

I am not a conversation starter generally especially when there are strangers or people that I don't know well in presence. But if I am in my capacity as the executive in my office, I will have to take charge of the meeting/talks when I meet my juniors or my visitors. When I am the visitor, I will let the host be the starter unless I do know the host very well. If I am in the company of my friends, there is no problem in who starts a conversation. We all talk as and when we have something to say.

Sometimes I value the silence or the gap because it is where we can find new ideas, we can refresh our mind there. But I believe also that I'm a conversation strater because I don't want to have a dull moment. Depending on who is my audience, I usually start on the basics and after that I would go on to the main point or reason. Thanks

I am a conversation starter when I stay with my good friends, we always have too much topics. But I am not a conversation starter when I stay with strangers, I always don't know how to start, and the topic I start whether they like.

Yes, I tend to bring up questions and remarks to keep the conversation going. But it also depends on the listeners. If they're not cooperative enough then there's no point for me to pass the ball over and over. Sometimes, even when I feel left out and not having enough share of the conversation I would just jump in and act interested.

hi, I agree with you. I am a very conserve person, and more of a listener type, and hesitating type, but later on , when ever i used to travel , i realized that, i am alone and i have to start some or the other conversation , with people, to feel occupied and to pass the time, especially in new places, where we dont know any one, so slowly i started talking to people, and making conversations, but not too much, i will be in my limit, but ofcourse too much of anything is not good.