Mad At Sister's Fiance

Lying to a child is a horrid thing to do and it's stupid too because eventually the child will realise they have been lied to. The trust goes right out the window. Just because kids are little and young doesn't mean they are stupid. An adult who thinks this way is the stupid one.

That is mean indeed. She would have more fun with the dolls. No one really needs a phone!

Funny story is your sister dumps the creep..._

hi lilyofthethorns my goodness at 11 she should be allowed to play with dolls, shes a child yet,. I agree your sister's fiance is being cruel to her.Yes hes a jerk for lying to her and meddling with her love of dolls. let the child be a child as they grow up soon enough.

And what is his point of fooling the little girl? I guess he needs a good lesson to stop this. It's not good to fool little kids, for they tend to follow what they have learned from the adults...duh :xxx

Yeah I don't approve of dirty tricks like that. I think that was a horrible thing to do and if she loves baby dolls is there really anything wrong with that? Besides he isn't even family so what right does he have to trick your niece? Or is the child his? Anyway I don't approve!

That guy is such an diot. First of all, that the mother approved was bad enough, but if she didn't approve of his behaviour and he did it anyway, that's even worse, because the door's just open for him to manipulate a child. I would have kicked him out of the house had he acted like that with my kid!

I'd tell her to take her dolls back since he didn't provide up to expectations.

I would have told my niece that she doesn't have to give up her dolls and when he asks about it kindly hand him back his bootleg phone. That is a very mean trick to play on a child and I hope he doesn't have any good luck following that one.

That was actually cruel. Why would you play a trick like that on a eleven year old girl? He isn't acting any older than her. If it's not the only trick he played on her that you didn't like I would watch out. Something doesn't sound right and he doesn't sound like he'd make a good father. Tell your sister to beware, she's got some problems ahead of her. What happened to the dolls? Can she get them back?

That is extremely mean to do to his niece. She is never going to forgive him for playing such a mean trick on her. I find it very inmature of him and he needs to give the baby doll back to her and she give him the useless phone back. Unless of course if he makes it a working phone for her. That is just so not right. She will grow up remembering this and he will never be her favorite uncle thats for sure.

I think that what your sister's fiance did is kind of mean. Although his intention is good and that is to stop your niece in playing baby dolls, I don't think that it is right to trick and disappoint her. I think that the kid is upset not only by the fact that the phone isn't working but that someone lied to her. We, adults, should be a good example for them. If this thing continues to happen, she will eventually think that lying is not bad. My sister also loves playing dolls. She has this rug doll I bought when she was 8 and she has been playing it until she is 16. The problem is she always bring the doll with her even at school. She always carry that doll wherever she goes. She feeds her, she changes its clothes, she sleep beside it and she even gave the doll a name and talks to it everytime. Some would really make fun of her because of it so what my mother did to stop her is she gave the doll to other kid. My mom told her that the little kid has no toy so that my sister would not take the doll back. But what my sister did is gave the kid another toy and took back the doll. She said she aren't giving away a friend.

I think he needs to get his head examined. Who would do that to an 11-year old girl? Girls normally play baby dolls, girls normally believe to whatever the adults tell them. No grown man would ever trick a little girl out of her own dolls in exchange for crap. Sorry for the words, but this is so unheard of. What was he thinking? Does your sister know this? And what was his reason for wanting your niece to get rid of his dolls?