Do you think there's a mom out there who doesn't love her child?

@Jenith (1381)
Philippines
July 31, 2012 10:44am CST
I don't know, just a thought. For the mommies to be who aborted their babies, do you think they love the fetus/baby? Do they have regrets after?
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@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 12
I think, they only regret when they get captured by the police for killing people. Get punished and may they get rotten in there.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
I never heard a woman put in prison because of abortion. In fact, china is one of the countries making abortion as legal.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 12
In Indonesia and couple country, specially for Islamic country. Abortions is forbidden.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Oh alright then. Hope women who aborted the fetus must have penalties to teach them lesson that what they did is not right and not good for the society either.
7 Aug 12
I would say they would have regrets. Unless a baby was concieved through rape etc, maybe they wouldn't regret that. Someone who does it due to incorrect timing will probably regret it, especially if they cannot concieve later in life.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
For a woman it's a great accomplishment when there's a baby coming in a right time. If they undergone abortion then later on cannot conceive anymore, it's a big problem but a sort of karma too.
• United States
31 Jul 12
I've seen a lot of moms that treat their children badly, but I wouldn't say that they don't love them. Now, I know a few girls (personally) that have gotten abortions, and only one out of the three actually feels she did the right thing by doing it. The other two constantly think about what they did, and if it would've been better to keep the baby and how their lives would be different if they had. So, there probably are SOME mothers that don't love their children, but not anywhere near as many as those that do.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
I just feel bad for women doing abortion and feel pity for those couple who long for a baby but no one came. These couple indulge in everything just to experience life as family but nothing happens. Sometimes life is unfair.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
31 Jul 12
I'm pretty sure there are. There are women who just have a baby to attach their boyfriends who want to break up with them. There are teens who get pregnant... most of them can't even feel motherly emotions as they are still children. And if I was raped by someone and I had to conceive their child, I'm not sure I would love them as he/she would remind me of that jerk who raped me.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
If things like these happen to a teen then parental guidance is required. PArents must know what their kids are doing. I think we need a psychologist to solve this kind of problem.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
4 Aug 12
I think there is no doubt that every mother loves her baby, although their love style are not the same. Some mothers are strict, but some mothers are not strict,
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
I prefer for mommies who are strict in a right way to their children because it shows how she loved them. For mothers who are not that strict, spoiling kids when they are still young will cause too much trouble when they grow up. Kids for parents are always a baby even if they are already 60 yrs old!!!
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
31 Jul 12
I would like to think that no mother will ever cease loving her own kid; but whenever I hear some news about moms abandoning her kids, getting an abortion, or sending her kid to work instead of to school, or worse; then I have to say that there are indeed mothers who are so unfeeling of their own kids. It might be hard to understand but I guess there really are certain women who are not cut out to be mothers in the first place.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
Is it possible to say that you are loved by your mother even if she never kiss and hug you? As far as I could remember that I was never kissed and hugged by my mother... do you think she love me?
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
4 Aug 12
At least at the time that they were pregnant and carrying the baby, either them or pressures from someone else usually, is what causes a Mom to give up her baby like that. I think personally deep down, even if they were not wanting a child at the time later on their will be much regret and sorrow, that is why a lot of women who have done this either will suffer from Severe Depression while many will try to even kill themselves later. Personally, there needs to be other options and choices available for struggling mothers to get help from, and choose from.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
21 Aug 12
I always think that there is no moms who doens't love their child because I am a mother of two kids and I know how much I love them and care for them, however, we hear news often about the parents abandon their children on the sidewalk... I just can't imagine how can the moms can be brutal like that... the baby somehow live in the stomach for 9 months, isn't there some bonding at least? I don't know anybody who is like that, as far as I know, my mother loves my sister and I, I love my children.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
I always believe that in every rule, there's always an exception. Mother/s who is/are victims of heinous crimes such as rape. Those people who cannot cope up with this emotional problem would would hate the child as he/she reminds her about the ordeal that she went through. But I don't think that its all hate, the only reason that she did not abort the baby would mean already lot the child.
@babyanna (1216)
• China
31 Jul 12
Hi,Jenith~ Yeah,I'm pretty sure there are that kind of mothers out there. I've heard mothers killing their babies because they think their husbands love their kids more than them. It is just soooooo crazy. But for those who aborted their babies, they probably didn't have a choice at that time. More than likely,they want to have the babies. But either that they were too young when they got pregnant or they were unable to raise their babies back then, they choose to abort the babies. They think they are not ready and they won't give the babies a good environment to grow up in if they give birth then. Or they got scared and didn't know what to do. For me, I couldn't imagine aborting a baby or having to go through the emotional and physical turmoils. But hey,it's a choice. But for some people, they were messing around with guys and didn't think about the consequences and they don't want the babies in the first place. That's just stupid and irresponsible.
@babyanna (1216)
• China
31 Jul 12
Okay,yeah,corrections."abort the fetuses"
• Malaysia
31 Jul 12
Hi, i think no but due to life issues that love might not available. Abortion is easy, maybe she might not have regrets but she might have change her life purpose or what life have in store for her with the baby that she have aborted.
@Jenith (1381)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
I know in other countries abortion is legal. I really don't know what comes up to their mind specially the government why they make it legal. It's a sin. A BIG SIN. Life is a gift. No humans can produce life. Only GOd. Why are doing this? Life is so precious! Most of the women who resort to abortion never got a child when they want to. A bad karma!
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
6 Aug 12
every woman loves a child but there are times woman they abort child maybe because of unwanted pregnancy just like if a woman is teenager unexpected of being pregnant they will abort it maybe because of they are worried what the future, and their parents will be mad at them. we don't know the reason behind!!some may regrets and are not.
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
hmm.. yes. there are some especially those who are unwanted. sadly.. :( Moms who abort their babies are most teenage moms.
1 Aug 12
yes they do have as though mom show anger from face but always love from the heart
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
1 Aug 12
Each and every mother on this earth love their child. But sometime due to some problem - like unmarried lady get pregnant then she is forced to do the abortion or may be the married women in the circumstances where doctor advice them to do so since child is not properly grown up and which may risk her life.
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
I think some moms does not love their child, specially those moms who had unplanned pregnancies and does not have financial capacity to support their childbut not all of them are like that. About moms having abortion, some cases they loved that child but if it is not aborted it could put her life at risk.