Crush or Love,can anybody differentiate it?^____^
By AijeffClynt
@AijeffClynt (50)
Philippines
July 31, 2012 10:47am CST
How do you describe someone who is inlove or just have a crush on you..For men?^__^For women?^___^AND WHY do sometimes,you hide your feelings..instead of showing and telling it to whom you were falling in love with?^____^
3 responses
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Aug 12
I am too old for this topic. But I want to answer this because I think this is an interesting topic. When we say crush, somebody admired us because we possess some qualities that he/she likes. But in the absence of those qualities, he/she still like us, then I would say that is love.
@AijeffClynt (50)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
thank you for responding..i ask it because i just remember someone, i dont know if he do loves me or he just have the crush on me...he did not speak it out..but we are closed to each other, that sometimes i can say he loves me...^__^He's a childhood friend of mine...but when we get to adulthood, its seems we're silently fighting to each other..coz i think of silent jealousy...=)The last time we met was that he said something very sweet on me, but in response to that, i insulted Him..he said then that he's going to court another woman then...he was affected..thats why im confused whether he do loves or not..it just a pass on me..now im married..but BOut Him.. he's still not..staying single for now...=)well its a matter of reminiscing...no feelings anymore..only a doubt...^___^
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
This is a common question but often hard to explain. I see, crush as an admiration whereas love is so broad that it really conquers ll, it is sacrife for me, acceptance for someone, something unconditionally.
We often hide our true feelings tro avoid being hurt or embarassed. I too have this thing to my classmate but we ended up as husband and wife. Good thing, I have this courage to speak out my true feelings. Thanks
@AijeffClynt (50)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
Its good that you have the courage to expressed it out,your wife is lucky enough...^___^
@TheSupersonic (279)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
I have read this article that says that if you have a crush and it last more than six months then definitely you are in love, but I do not know if it is true because I never experienced it yet. Well we tend to be afraid to tell our feelings to the people we like because we do not want them to feel ill about us or awkward specially if this person is close to us, in short we are afraid that our feelings for them will be rejected and will be hurt deeply.
