please advice my friend mylotters
By luxlyangels
@luxlyangels (1286)
July 31, 2012 2:51pm CST
I got this mail from him this morning and he is expectiong a replÝ and honestly I don't know what to tell him: This is his story
I went to my fiancée’s place to drop off an item she urgently needed for a presentation at work.
While i was still waiting for her to come down and meet me, i met her father who complained his internet service as been down all day and he needed to send an urgent e.mail to a client before 10am.
I requested to see what the problem was and after checking his modem, i discovered he had no more bandwidth on his package.
He uses a service that is quite far from where he stays so the issue of going to their office to pay before 10am was out of it.
After thinking for a while, i offered to drop my laptop with him so that he doesn't miss out on a business deal.
i turned it on, put the password and handed it over to him. just then his daughter came down and we both strolled away as she was already late for office.
Lo and behold about 30minutes later, my fiancee called and told me where ever i was i should meet her at an eatery close to her office. i was scared and confused at the same time as this is the person i just parted with some 30minutes ago.
I rush there and waited for a while as she needed to give excuse of why she should leave the office that early in the morning.
When she arrived, she was close to tears and was accusing me of giving my laptop to her father. While i was still yet to phantom what she meant. She said her father called her and was screaming that she can't marry me on continue with the relationship because i am his biggest critic on a social forum. He said i never agree to his views and i always insult his personality.
she made me understand that since i hibernated my system, as soon as he logged on to ,the social forum site he saw my username and almost smashed my laptop.
I am so confused right now and scared to go pickup my laptop later today, i really don't understand why he will take this issue that far.
Her father is a political figure in the country, and in my country there are many critics and my friend happen to be one. What do you think is the best way to go about this issue?
3 responses
@musicluv4life (1867)
• United States
1 Aug 12
I would get the laptop back and ask her what she wants not what her dad wants. If she still wants to be with you then her fathers views shouldn't matter.
Have you been with her for a while?
I Hope this helps, i would just have a talk with her though and see if its her father or her that's not happy.
@luxlyangels (1286)
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1 Aug 12
They have been together for some time and they are almost marired. In my country most times what the parents think about a union matters and you know the father is powerful ie a political figure, he can do and undo! I just don't want him to have some problems
@musicluv4life (1867)
• United States
1 Aug 12
Hmm, that is some predicament isn't it. I am sorry i just know i would want whats best for me not what my father thinks. sorry this doesn't help you much.
@shaqziad (655)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 12
uh oh. what a bad luck. but it is better to happen now than later, when the relationship goes further into marriage. i guess he can try to ask his girlfriend to retrieve back the laptop, and hope to continue going out with her secretly. i think her father might try to separate them, but first thing first, get back his laptop. then wait and see what will happen.
@luxlyangels (1286)
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2 Aug 12
Yes many politicians need to be exterminated like unwanted alliens and pests, many are so annoying and do not care for the people other than their pockets aÑd family.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Aug 12
i think if i was in that much hot water, id lie my azz off. id say i loaned my laptop to a friend just like id loaned it to him and maybe he put that on there? anyway it sounds a bit fishy that the father would keep the laptop. it could be a scam, so id go get it and tell him that till it was safe again at least or id tell her she better bring it to me. no woman is worth all that unless you are already married and is this what he wants his married life to be like?
@luxlyangels (1286)
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1 Aug 12
It aint good to deny what you believe in, by telling her father that its not your I'd and you borrowed your laptop would only prove you do not believe in your self. And is out there to please people and can compromise when under pressure