How can we choose Good Friends?

I need time to know a guy is a good friend or not...many guys talk nice but not really good in friendship, some rarely talk nice but they are truly a good friend.

I think people most of the time chose people who have some of the characteristic that they don' have, yet someone that have a lot in common...I have 2 real great friends that I feel extremely close to and fond of them.. They know me, respect me and understand me...and likewise.. We secretly call ourselves " the three Diva's"...see we are all over 63 and we feel we can call ourselves anything we want....LOL

Good friends are very important when it comes to living life. Especially people who you can count on no matter what. Many women also need one they can talk with and rely on no matter what is going on in their life. The best way in choosing best friends often depends on who you can relate with the most and have things in common with. It varies as we get older but someone you can count on no matter what is going on in your life is always the best.

hi, i guess you can not choose really the friends or you can say the goods ones of frinds because they will be good at first and later you will find that you was not correct about them, so i think because some friends have different faces for many situations you will not be able to find the good friends unless you are in a situation where you find the real friend is really beside you and thought that situation is affecting him or her badely they will be there for you no matter what

making a true friend is worth celebrating.during our lives,we will get some correct suggestions.it's a weathy for everyone.true friend will point out the faults that you made.true friends may not contact frequently.but once you face big troubles,they will help you at time.make friends are so hard because of made friend is true friends

There is a saying gose like this, what friends you choose decide what fate you will have.That make the significante of friends in one's way more obvious.I believe that a real friend will not only accompany beside to share your happiness,but also stand back of you when you felt lost.He or she will told you honstly that everything will be ok,and if it's not ok, it;s not the end.That is what we call FRIEND.

Lit, good friends are that type of friends who will be with you nor matter you are in what situation. Besides that, they must be a very understanding person, to be able to communicate without any problem. Although i only have one good friend in my life but i am happy with it. Because we had went through thick and thin from childhood until now and we still keep in touch. Although sometimes we might disagree on certain matter but at last we are back together again.

hi there litvillegas, well, it is quite hard to choose good friends now a days especially if you are already an adult. since you are becoming choosy and sometimes hesitant to express who you really are. although you are showing your good traits but it sometimes hide what your real attitude is. maybe, the only thing you can say he/she is a good friend if he/she didn't show any disgusting attitude towards.

It is really hard to find a good friend in life. A good friend won't need to be many, one or two maybe enough. For me, personally, I don't have much good friends. Most of the people I know of, I won't call them friends, maybe just acquaintance, or the same category. Good friend is the person as you described above. And they don't existed many in this world.

Your post reminded me of three very good friends of mine at work who were transferred to different branches. We used to call ourselves "THE ORIGINALS" . This is because we were the pioneers of the company in our branch. Our group consist of our very own manager and we, three, lead officers. We used to enjoy just being at the office because then we'll start and end the day with our echoing laughs as we work. But those were the days, and now, we are all separated from each other because of work too. My firs two friends were transferred to two different branches and we all cried so much when they left. We couldn't do anything because it was the company's directive. We were all crying because we'd be separated from each other and them, from their families, as well. After a few years, my manager was also transferred to another branch and like before, we couldn't refuse to what was happening. I was left alone to make new friends. Much as I'd like to, I find it really hard to find friends who will equal any of my three far friends. I have new colleagues with whom I also share with but deep inside, I long to develop the same friendship that I've had with them. I don't know if it's me or them but I still can't say they're as good enough for me as those three before. :(

Be careful in selecting your friends. You have to consider some aspects before choosing one because friends can greatly influence our attitude and personality as a whole. What you have mentioned above are all true. Because we wanted other people to accept us, we tend to change our personality so we could fit to them. And sometimes, we forgot to consider if it is right or wrong. So choosing our friends is something that we should have to think first because there are friends that would lead you to the wrong path. A good friend on the other hand, like you have mentioned, would guide you do the what is right and would stand to that no matter what. And never try to hide your friends from your parents. Let you parents meet them and know more about them. They would help you decide if they are good for you or not. The bible is also a good guide on how we could choose our friends. Try to read them and learn from the examples from the book.

I think good friends can be tested in time. I mean, you cannot say someone is your good or best friend if you only new him/her for 3 months and would see that person twice a month. I mean, friendship can be tested by time.

you want to choose good friends, in fact, it is easy, if you think someone is your good friend, then he or she is. actually, you feel happy when you get along with your good friends, and you always have same habit, you like same things, and you are no stress when you face your good friends, you trust them and you are willing to share good things with them, if you have people can do these, they are your good friends.

Last night,one of my best friend got angry at me because i was absent from her birthday party.I sent her message to apologize and she refused to reply.I have no idea how to account for my disgust with this kind of party. We become good friends at the first time we met in the middle school.It's really a precious friendship for both of us .This affair make me feel sad and i begin to think deeply what is friendship? How should we maintain it ? In my opinion ,Friend is who dry your eyes when you cry,give his hands when you shiver,cheer for you once you get success.Share happiness with your friends, The happiness will increase to double.On the other hand, Don't be hesitate to her when you feel sad .Then the sadness will decrease to half .That's just the magic power of friendship.Becides,understanding and faith will be the key to keep it. As for me, i will try my best to ask for excuse from my friends.I would like to have a heart to heart communication with her.