Stay at home or go out, that's a problem.

so i heard ,beijing was storm.first congratulation you will enter college,i just graduted from college.i this case you have a long holidays ,you can go travelling,but you said that you mom doesn't agree,she just concerned about your safety.so stay at home playing with your friend ,you can jion in club that you interested.enjoy summers!!good luck

I live in England, and I can see why people would want to come over the watch the games because it is amazing and there is a really good atmosphere over here at the moment. I don't know how old you are, but I think that you sound as though you're old enough to start making decisions in your life about the things that you would like to do without having to worry about what your Mum tells you to do. You should listen to her advice because you should respect her, but at the end of the day you're old enough to go in the direction that you want to in your own life.

Sometimes after graduation, you are really goign to miss hanging out with your friends and have happy time before going home. For now, if you really want to go out, better tell your mom the exact reason why you want to leave the house so that they will be aware where are you going. Talk to her and explain properly, if she allows you, you must be thankful. If not, just respect their decision and I know they have a better reason for not letting you out of the house.If you have the courage, better ask her why she did not allow you to go outside.

i get your point. yeah, i agree that now is the time to do something different. once you get into college, you will say goodbye to free time. then you might goes straight to work. no more fooling around. but traveling to England is quite radical. i can understand why your mom is against that.it is quite sudden, you need to think about travel expense, accommodation, passport, visa and many more. why don't you travel in your country? there must be a lot of interesting places in China that you haven't visit. you can stay in friend or relative places too. it safer that way. your mom might let you go.

i think you should take a trip, you finished yor school study. it's so good and now you have enough time to have fun. if you only stay at home, that's too boring. you don't have any homework now and when you go to college you have to study hard again, so you have good time now, just enjoy it and do something you want, london is so interesting now and maybe it is a good country for you to travel

Congratulations on entering college. It will be a new road to cross. I've been there and done that and loved it. Yes it can be tough but you'll do just find. My advice if you can do take a mini-vacation that's about all the time you have right now. School starts in the fall and I advise everyone who will listen if you can go to college go do not stall and say I'll take a year off because you'll never get back into the swing of things. I have known so many people who have done that and they ended up not getting a degree. Now I suspect you're 18 and in America at the age of 18 you are considered an adult and can chose to make your own decisions. However, as a parent we have the wisdom that you don't so listen to your mom. Did you know that even today and I'm 55 my kids still listen to what their mom says -- moms have that kind of power because kids value what I have to say. It is amazing. Now I have one child adult who is at home and he is 18 and we pretty much let him go where he wants to as long as we know where he is. That's all we ask. Do you know we know more now where he is at then we did when he was younger. We love our children and want only the best for them but sometimes the answer is "no". Good luck in college and keep us posted.