I hate this negative feelings
By shylade
@shylade (3132)
Philippines
August 1, 2012 2:03am CST
There are series events now that giving me this negative feeling. I hate it. I know I should trust God because He always has a purpose but still I am down with this negative feeling. I wish I can do something about it. I want to just escape and leave it but no. I have a family. I can't just fall down because I have a son whom I love so much. I know we can make. This is just a test. This too shall pass. Please pray for us also. Thanks!
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23 responses
@wogibook (75)
• Singapore
2 Aug 12
You wrote 'I wish I can do something about it'
That's relying on human effort my friend, which God doesn't want you to. Rely on Him, thanking Him for all things He has done to you. Look to the cross for He has bore our sins so that we are saved!
Remember how Jesus triumph over satan? Read Matthew 4:1-11 and glorify Him for He triumph over all evil things and that include your negative feeling.
@wogibook (75)
• Singapore
3 Aug 12
No problem at all. We are all sitting in the same boat and that we should encourage and remind each other on how loving our Father is.
If God is FOR us, who will be AGAINST us?
@chariedeancubar (40)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
You're welcome! Always put smile on your face and have a cheerful frame of mind. :)
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
Me also. I am having thoughts of God not giving me what I want but you know he has a plan for you. He has a plan for me. So what we can do is hope for the best and give it our best. Be happy and avoid negative feelings.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
The negative feeling that you're mentioning is only one of the trials given to you to measure yourself how strong is your fauth in him.Negative feelings are the things that will let you down and can cause depression. Those feelings are not advisable to be given much attention for it catres big problem and if not given remedy can even make that person have unstable mind or mental disorder.
@jamssy23 (30)
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2 Aug 12
Hi there! Don't get so stressed out with those negative feelings. Just be optimistic and always think about Him and your family. I'm happy to hear that you still believe in Him and you care for your family especially to your son. Just bear in mind that you are blessed and He is always with you.
@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
You'll be fine.
God won't give you a problem you can't overcome. Be grateful, it only means you are remembered by God--you were tested. Have your faith stronger :)
Make your son, your source of strength.
Count your blessings too.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
You need to believe with yourself first to avoid that negative feelings. That is always happen to you because you don't have to trust yourself. You have little faith in God, that is why nothing will happen.
If you really entrust those things with God. Your negative feelings must be eliminated now and nothing will bother you in the future.
No one will help us but ours. Even if a million people will come to you and said this is what you need to do. But your still lack of faith that you can do it. Those advice is not materialize...
Be full confident to yourself and fully trust your mind, heart and feelings to God. If you still have the emptiness into your heart and mind. I think there something you need to find out...
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I will pray for you and hope everything will be okay sooner. They say that when it rains, it pours. When blessings are coming, they sometimes come in batch. It is also the same with our problems. We may feel helpless and think that escaping is the best solution for those problems. But like what I have read lately, problems are like dog, when you try to run from it, it will run after you.
I think that all of us struggle with this kind of feelings. To fight this negative feelings, most people I know regularly read the bible. They find peace of mind by knowing that God has very good plans for us and that we have something to look forward to. Maybe you can try this as well.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
2 Aug 12
Negative feelings only give us more stress and make us lose confidence. When I feel negative I always don't have energic to do anything else. So I hate this negative feelings either.
@redouano (17)
• Algeria
2 Aug 12
it's hard, and thats life, the truth is that we just try to complicate life, the samll problem we get the begest we make it in our feeling, its normal because we are human, you need to find your way, if you realy trust GOD, he will show you the way, just pray and pray and pray, and every thing will be fine.
@zhette4220 (181)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
For whatever is happening into your life right now, always remember that God is always there for you. Negative things always happen. Just don't forget to seek God's guidance in times of trouble.
There is this great tale that was once told to me, it's a story of a turtle. Just imagine how hard it is for him to carry that heavy luggage in his back. But you know what he said?"It's God's choice to make me carry the luggage, for it is the only way I will be protected."
Things happen for a reason. SOme are allowed by God for us to learn and become more strong.Just always remember, in times of trouble, let us strengthen our faith to GOD.
Just as much as you trust God in times of your trouble, your son depends on you too...SO be strong for your family. God bless shylade. I know you can conquer all those negativities in your life.
@adilkk1709 (1)
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2 Aug 12
Hi, I appreciate you because of your effort for all this situation. i also pray for that you May PASS this test. Have a strong believe in ALLAH ALMIGHTY.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Aug 12
Yes. There are also times that I doubt my own abilities but when I think of God being there at all times, I fear no more. I would always pray for his guidance and I know that he is always there. My friend, you should not doubt the power of God. There maybe times that we are being confronted with many problems but with his guidance everything will be okay.
@jaykenneth (43)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
life's so full of tests, we just have to find answers and solutions for those tests, and besides, life will be boring if there is no such thrills. find enjoyment on what you do, life is so short, so spend it in a productive way. I pray for you and all people who needs the guidance of God. I also pray for myself that my sins be forgiven. have a nice day.
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
1 Aug 12
Dear shylade,pls remember everything will be passed and time will cure everything,so though you are in a negative feelings this time but pls believe that it will be over sooner or later.After a few days later you will thing the stuff now you face is just nothing,pls have a strong will and strong heart,no just for you but also for your family,you can make it,my friend.
@Hillxuan (77)
• China
1 Aug 12
you are right,it not only you but also every one all dislike negative feeling,sometimes ,even i make friend ,i never make friend with negative people,becase i'm very positive and optimistic.so my classmates also said that as if i have no troubles,they also like playing with me ,so,first of all you can relax ,then don't give up and give in.god bless you.good luck.
@paulli3 (312)
• China
1 Aug 12
i hate negative feelings when i have negative feelings i think there is no hopes in my life and i aon't want to do anything to achieve my dreams, i think i will fail in the future, that feelings make me feel uncomfortable and angry. i really don't like it, but i tell myself no matter what problem you face, it can't last long when you pass it you will feel the sky is so brilliant so i become positive again refuse negative feelings and good luck