I hate this negative feelings

@shylade (3132)
Philippines
August 1, 2012 2:03am CST
There are series events now that giving me this negative feeling. I hate it. I know I should trust God because He always has a purpose but still I am down with this negative feeling. I wish I can do something about it. I want to just escape and leave it but no. I have a family. I can't just fall down because I have a son whom I love so much. I know we can make. This is just a test. This too shall pass. Please pray for us also. Thanks!
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23 responses
@wogibook (75)
• Singapore
2 Aug 12
You wrote 'I wish I can do something about it' That's relying on human effort my friend, which God doesn't want you to. Rely on Him, thanking Him for all things He has done to you. Look to the cross for He has bore our sins so that we are saved! Remember how Jesus triumph over satan? Read Matthew 4:1-11 and glorify Him for He triumph over all evil things and that include your negative feeling.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
Once again, you gave me an inspiring words. Thank you. I must always remember that no problem is bigger than God so I should fear no one.
• Singapore
3 Aug 12
No problem at all. We are all sitting in the same boat and that we should encourage and remind each other on how loving our Father is. If God is FOR us, who will be AGAINST us?
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
No matter what happens, stay positive! :)
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I will. I will do my best to keep myself strong. Thanks for the encouraging words.
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
You're welcome! Always put smile on your face and have a cheerful frame of mind. :)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
Me also. I am having thoughts of God not giving me what I want but you know he has a plan for you. He has a plan for me. So what we can do is hope for the best and give it our best. Be happy and avoid negative feelings.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Actually, this is over a week already but since the problem has no solution yet and the weather is not fine, my negative feelings come in once in awhile. But I absolutely don't lose hope. I always believe and trust God. Thanks for the response.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
The negative feeling that you're mentioning is only one of the trials given to you to measure yourself how strong is your fauth in him.Negative feelings are the things that will let you down and can cause depression. Those feelings are not advisable to be given much attention for it catres big problem and if not given remedy can even make that person have unstable mind or mental disorder.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Yes that is true so as much as I can I try to avoid it. But sometimes no matter how positive you are, days like these really come. Anyway, thanks for the response.
@jamssy23 (30)
2 Aug 12
Hi there! Don't get so stressed out with those negative feelings. Just be optimistic and always think about Him and your family. I'm happy to hear that you still believe in Him and you care for your family especially to your son. Just bear in mind that you are blessed and He is always with you.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
Maybe turn out of events make me stress and that gives me negative feelings. I know I can make it and I believe it. I trust God more than anyone. Thanks for the response.
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
You'll be fine. God won't give you a problem you can't overcome. Be grateful, it only means you are remembered by God--you were tested. Have your faith stronger :) Make your son, your source of strength. Count your blessings too.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
Thank you for reminding me that its a way God is showing me He cares. I know, my son aside from God is one of the source of my strength. Thank you again.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
You need to believe with yourself first to avoid that negative feelings. That is always happen to you because you don't have to trust yourself. You have little faith in God, that is why nothing will happen. If you really entrust those things with God. Your negative feelings must be eliminated now and nothing will bother you in the future. No one will help us but ours. Even if a million people will come to you and said this is what you need to do. But your still lack of faith that you can do it. Those advice is not materialize... Be full confident to yourself and fully trust your mind, heart and feelings to God. If you still have the emptiness into your heart and mind. I think there something you need to find out...
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Thanks for the inspiring words. I know and believe I can make it. Thanks again and hopefully everything will be okay.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I will pray for you and hope everything will be okay sooner. They say that when it rains, it pours. When blessings are coming, they sometimes come in batch. It is also the same with our problems. We may feel helpless and think that escaping is the best solution for those problems. But like what I have read lately, problems are like dog, when you try to run from it, it will run after you. I think that all of us struggle with this kind of feelings. To fight this negative feelings, most people I know regularly read the bible. They find peace of mind by knowing that God has very good plans for us and that we have something to look forward to. Maybe you can try this as well.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
That's right. I want and try to look at the brighter side. I pray that everything will be okay the soonest. I appreciate you encouraging words. Thanks a lot. I really love mylot. There are plenty of people you can confide with.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
despite of your negative feelings you still trust GOD. Of course there times we think of negative feelings shylade you should never give up GOD has plan for us, set your mind to think positive ;)
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I believe too that God has a better plan. So I will never ever give up. Thanks for the words.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
2 Aug 12
Negative feelings only give us more stress and make us lose confidence. When I feel negative I always don't have energic to do anything else. So I hate this negative feelings either.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I'm over stress right now. I thought it will be gone by now but I am wrong. Anyway, I am thinking of the right thing to do and contemplating with so many things. I pray to God to give us the right choice. Thanks for the response.
@redouano (17)
• Algeria
2 Aug 12
it's hard, and thats life, the truth is that we just try to complicate life, the samll problem we get the begest we make it in our feeling, its normal because we are human, you need to find your way, if you realy trust GOD, he will show you the way, just pray and pray and pray, and every thing will be fine.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I know that's part of life and I need to face it. I need to be strong and I need to keep my faith no matter what. I can pass it, I strongly believe that. Thanks for the response.
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
For whatever is happening into your life right now, always remember that God is always there for you. Negative things always happen. Just don't forget to seek God's guidance in times of trouble. There is this great tale that was once told to me, it's a story of a turtle. Just imagine how hard it is for him to carry that heavy luggage in his back. But you know what he said?"It's God's choice to make me carry the luggage, for it is the only way I will be protected." Things happen for a reason. SOme are allowed by God for us to learn and become more strong.Just always remember, in times of trouble, let us strengthen our faith to GOD. Just as much as you trust God in times of your trouble, your son depends on you too...SO be strong for your family. God bless shylade. I know you can conquer all those negativities in your life.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I know what is happening with my life is not that hard as compared with other people. I am still lucky and that I want to keep in my mind. Your words are really encouraging so thank you so much. God bless you too.
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
hi..negative feelings is a result a negative thoughts. Try to battle life with positive views...and you feel happy if you choose to be on the positive side.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Yes, I need to fight the negative feeling. I am trying and I know I can make it. Thanks for the response.
2 Aug 12
Hi, I appreciate you because of your effort for all this situation. i also pray for that you May PASS this test. Have a strong believe in ALLAH ALMIGHTY.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Thanks for the prayer. Mylotters are really nice. You give me strength booster. Thanks again.
@rahul2u (200)
• India
1 Aug 12
hi shylade, first try to divert your mind from the negative feeling and do any work which you could like to do. this will change your mood also. i know you have enough confidence to overcome this situation and you will be good in your life. all the best.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Actually I feel that my work is not that enjoyable unlike before. I would just love to blog, mylot and do online selling. But those aren't as profitable as my work now. SO that I have no choice fro now. Thanks for the response.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Aug 12
Yes. There are also times that I doubt my own abilities but when I think of God being there at all times, I fear no more. I would always pray for his guidance and I know that he is always there. My friend, you should not doubt the power of God. There maybe times that we are being confronted with many problems but with his guidance everything will be okay.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Yes, that is so true. Sometimes, no matter how we believe, we still feel the negativity. I know through God everything will be okay. Thanks for the response.
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
life's so full of tests, we just have to find answers and solutions for those tests, and besides, life will be boring if there is no such thrills. find enjoyment on what you do, life is so short, so spend it in a productive way. I pray for you and all people who needs the guidance of God. I also pray for myself that my sins be forgiven. have a nice day.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I agree with you. Life is not complete with all the trials we have to go through. Trials make us stronger. Thank you for the prayer. I appreciate it much.
• China
1 Aug 12
Dear shylade,pls remember everything will be passed and time will cure everything,so though you are in a negative feelings this time but pls believe that it will be over sooner or later.After a few days later you will thing the stuff now you face is just nothing,pls have a strong will and strong heart,no just for you but also for your family,you can make it,my friend.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Thank you for the encouraging words. Yes, I will stay strong and I know this too shall pass. I am feeling a lot better now and I am hoping and praying for the best. Thanks again
@Hillxuan (77)
• China
1 Aug 12
you are right,it not only you but also every one all dislike negative feeling,sometimes ,even i make friend ,i never make friend with negative people,becase i'm very positive and optimistic.so my classmates also said that as if i have no troubles,they also like playing with me ,so,first of all you can relax ,then don't give up and give in.god bless you.good luck.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I have taken a rest already and feeling much better now. Still I'm praying that everything will turn out okay. Thanks for the response.
@paulli3 (312)
• China
1 Aug 12
i hate negative feelings when i have negative feelings i think there is no hopes in my life and i aon't want to do anything to achieve my dreams, i think i will fail in the future, that feelings make me feel uncomfortable and angry. i really don't like it, but i tell myself no matter what problem you face, it can't last long when you pass it you will feel the sky is so brilliant so i become positive again refuse negative feelings and good luck
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
It's like sunshine after rain right? I love to experience sunshine again and I think the gloomy weather here is affecting me so much. Thanks for the response.