Admitting your fault is much acceptable than justifying a wrong deeds !

I always admit if it was my mistake. That way, i feel relieved that i won't be carrying it in my conscience forever. Besides, i know God is always watching! Mas takot ako sa kanya pag nagalit. (I am more afraid of Him, when he gets angry)

Didi, i am agree with you here. Yeah, honestly speaking on my school days i steal books (only books). So i never claim that i am a perfect person but can say now as i dont steal anything now. Actually, money is the main reason. We did not had money to afford story books.... Have a nice time.

I agree with you on that, but how about admitting the mistakes but still continue from doing it? A friend that I'm talking to my previous discussion admit that she was really wrong by using other people but she also admit that she can't stop because many relatives are depended on her. Just to clear her conscience she thought by doing good deeds it will justify her wrong doing. I don't judge her as it's her business not mine and at the end of the day she's the one who pays for it.

Hi Jai sis, indeed those who are able to admit their fault is like a hero. But most of the time, people who are admitting their fault is not getting as what they deserved for. It ever happened once to me before where i thought my idea can help my friend. But, in the end i was being blamed by my friend for being too helpful. I tried to explain as why i give my idea that way. But sad to say, she not accepted it and break our friendship of a few years. Seems like, some people are hard to forgive the person who had done or speak wrong.

Yep, admitting that you're wrong is definitely going to make our lives better. And if I read this all right, you're talking about stealing here..? What was stolen from you? Or were you judged wrongly of stealing? Yep, I also think that judging others is wrong, unless you're the one wearing the long black dress, and you're doing the judging because it's your job.

Hi my friend, Whose person you know that after you said something to him/her that their work are illegal or wrong are not giving you their side or justifying. I believe nothing - why? because it is the natural being of being human, very depensive and trying always lawyer to thier own mistake. Really accepting mistake outright is very difficult in all situation even a person you caught in the act doing bad or wrong - they have always scapegoat reasons.. because that's the way of people.

Yes that is very true my friend

HI Jai! You are very right that there is nothing wrong in admitting our wrong deeds as telling lies or hiding behind excuses does not help in the long run and there is always a change of losing one's reputation. I do not mind admitting my faults and try my best not to repeat the mistake again. Having said that I am a normal human being and faults do occur in life inadvertently and unintentionally. I believe in gaining trust of others.

Hi jai, this is perfect, we may not justify the things as wrong as soon and we may not accept the fault so soon, i think this is human nature.

hi jai, When people made mistake they always find way to get out of it they will justify what they did is just right for them though its totally wrong. I am the kind of person who admit my own mistakes I am just a human I am bond to do one or more as long as it will be in different day miss yah

it's a matter of experience... if someone commits a bad did and he/she wasn't caught for that then he/she might have the courage to repeat same situation over and over again.

HI jai Agree with you. Many of us are guilty on that. We tend to judge people with their wrong doings but we don't know we also do the same stuff. Hmmmn and I just remember something that happened 2 days ago. Don't know if I can write it here but will try.

Hi jaiho, Thanks for serving such a discussion about situations which one should overcome. But the thing that help overcome any tempting situations is his or her intuition. But hardly any people are there in my country is not merged into corruption. Even president(former and on going), prime minister or ministers(former or on going), officers, touts of the society etc almost all are plunged into bribery. What things act behind their idiocy? You already know Bangladesh stood at the top rank( Transparency International rank) several times and stil going on high speed with corruption. None is here to raise any active voice against or tighten the reign of corruption and poor public are being exploited. You already also WB cancelled the loan for the construction of Padmga bridge because of the graft in bidding or tendering process of the govt. Can you imagine how much a large number of people are involved in corruption. Are these people mentally paralysed or congenitaly idiot? I would request the internation doner gentry to sanction or approve any financial loan or help on condition this corrupted Bangladesh must lower the intensity of corruption to a satisfactory level. And yeah I think he or she who admits his fault and swears not to commit it in future is greater than the people apparently honest. Because he or she is the first who realized the truth and realized the corruption an unexpected deed. Stay well

Hi friend, i agree with your words, no one is apart from mistakes, we all commit some mistakes with or without our knowledge. To Err is human. So we must find our faults first before judging other persons, but sadly most of the persons forget about their mistakes and searching for other persons bad things

have you ever been in in a situation wherein no one is around and you see something so tempting? umm yes like when i saw a cake in my ref and i know thats for tomorrow.. it takes ALL of me not to take a bite.. or a slice