how is it to fall out of love?
By mylzcantor08
@mylzcantor08 (66)
Philippines
August 1, 2012 5:48pm CST
how will you know if you are falling out of love? what makes a person feel that way? have u experienced such? would you mind sharing? so i would know if that's what i feel at the moment. thanks a bunch!
7 responses
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
Falling out of love is the result of confusion with each others true feelings. Lack of trust with each other. Unable to meet the expectations.
Nowadays, falling out of love is easily experience due to lack of time with each other.If you are comitted you should learn to give time for both of you.Always see to it you give each other's importance and don't hesitate to give surprises sometimes.
@jakie18 (233)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Love is not blind. Lovers are blind. Sometimes when we are in love we are blinded by the feeling that our partner is the only reason why our world is keep on turning. We ignore the people who criticize our partner and sometimes we even fight just to prove them wrong. However we should put in mind that maybe there are reasons behind those criticism so we should examine our relationships. Are you still happy to be with your partner? Is he worth all your time and effort? You should compare the days when you first felt the feeling of being in love with him and the feeling that you felt right now? Is it still the same or you want something more? There should be a reason behind falling out of love. Relationship is a two way street. It's a give and take. I hope everything will turn out well.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
2 Aug 12
I also think its a difficult question , but I would go with things not feeling the way the usually does . I have never experience falling out of love and I dont think I would want to . Its like falling form cloud 9 . I think if people is falling out of love should try renew their love before calling it quits.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
I haven't experienced falling out of love yet. Maybe, when you wake up one morning, feeling your love to him is gone and that's it. You're no longer happy with him and you want your freedom. You plan your life without including him in your plans or you can't see your future with him. Check your feelings. Can you live without him?
@rage35 (344)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
For me, you will know that you fell out of love is when you wake up in the morning and not thinking of her/him first. If you saw him/her, you're not having excitement or a feeling of joy. You feel that your not comfortable to have the person anymore. You can feel that there's no spark anymore when both of you are together and you will think that you can live without her/him by your side.
@bent31 (85)
• Canada
2 Aug 12
How will you know? This is kind of difficult to answer because it depends on the person's feelings. I'll try my best to list some general things.
You might be falling out of love if you often forget to call, talk, etc about your partner or anything related. It's also possible if you don't get that nice and warm feeling inside when you think about your partner. Maybe when you see each other there's not much "fireworks" (smiling after a kiss, being happy, etc) going on when you go out to the movies or a restaurant.
There are many things that can be listed but you have to ask yourself, how do you feel about it? Only you can answer that. Hopefully this helps!
Have a good day.