I fall in love again???
By ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
Vietnam
August 2, 2012 4:40am CST
No, not yet, but i feel so happy, excited whenever i talk with that guy. I met him 2 years ago, we keep in touch but i didn't talk with him much because i spent most my time with ex-. Since my love got problem and broken, I didn't go out or met anyone else, i spent more time to talk with him. If i am not online he makes a phone call to me ask i am fine or not. Everyday like that..and talking with him makes me happier...
He is my good friend and i am very happy when i have him around to care/talk with me when i am in needs. Fall in love again? no, for sure not now. I know i am not ready for it yet, i need more time...
23 responses
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
2 Aug 12
I think I am in love also but still with someone invisible. I know what I want in my relationship and I think I am going to find her soon.
I am happy to read the discussions like this. I think good relations make you lively and happy.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 12
when you and him had ended your relationsip?? what is the reason??
@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Aug 12
It is not necessary to fall in love again, if you are happy with your life right now. If talking with this guy friend make you a happier person than you already are, then just keep talking to him. You don't need to FALL in love or RISE in love to do that. It is no need to go over it again to find happiness, if you are not ready, and in need of more time, so be it, no hurry at all, go slow and take all the time you have in the world to do it again. 
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!! @lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Aug 12
I think i can read your mind, that is why i wrote whatever your thought said so...hope you don't mind about that.
Unless you want to be hurt again, then you should rush yourself to FALL in love again without using your mind except using your heart. It is always better to take your time and enjoy your present happy moment with this close guy friend as it is, let nature take its course and see whre it take you from here as far as the relationship between you and him is concerned, no need to push thing too fast and too hard, it will grow naturally whenever love is present. 
Unless you want to be hurt again, then you should rush yourself to FALL in love again without using your mind except using your heart. It is always better to take your time and enjoy your present happy moment with this close guy friend as it is, let nature take its course and see whre it take you from here as far as the relationship between you and him is concerned, no need to push thing too fast and too hard, it will grow naturally whenever love is present. 
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Just enjoy your friendship first. It's okay not to rush in love. You have to enjoy being single and when you're already to commit, then go for it. Be happy always.
@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 12
hey, how is the progress between you and this guy? This is interesting, really. I have not had any boyfriend since 2 years lol and once or twice I thought I was in love with other guy but then I realized that wasn't love, it was just short of crush and then when I get to know the person better I feel like "wew I dont love him as I thought". Now I kinda miss the feeling of falling in love lol but I dunno.
Take your time with this guy, who knows maybe you only had crush with him because you were lonely after you broke up with your bf
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Aug 12
hihihi, 2 years, it is a long time already and i think it is a nice time to get in a new relationship. Who knows tomorrow you maybe fall in love with a guy....
He still cares me, chatting with me everyday before i go to sleep or make phone calls to me. It is very nice when have someone who cares us...right?
He still cares me, chatting with me everyday before i go to sleep or make phone calls to me. It is very nice when have someone who cares us...right?1 person likes this
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Aug 12
ah, i understand. don't worry about your scar on face, just be confident only. Currently i have many pimple scars on my forehead but i didn't hide it at all. Today it looks better but pimples was grow up from the first week of august. I don't care much about it and when chatting with another i forget that i have an ugly forehead now.
I used to have a long time that i didn't go out much and not meet any new guys, but with the time. You are a nice girl and for sure you will meet a nice man.
Currently i am happy with my life, single but being happy. for sure i like to chat with that guy then i will continue to chat with him. in Oct i may meet him again in Thailand because he just told me he plans to travel to Thailand at the same time i go to there.
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@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 12
I dont go out nowadays, staying at home all the time and only go out to go to hospital to meet my doctors. Unfortunatelly both my doctors are female lol, my doctor from previous hospital is a young handsome doctor but I did not like the hospital so I changed to another hospital. So I dont meet new guys anymore, plus I have ugly scars on my face, who would like to date girl with scar.
That is nice for you and him, keep going who knows love will come by time. yup, it is nice when someone cares for us.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 12
I hope good thing will happen to you :)
It not easy to start new relationship, sometimes we need time to get over the past. You are lucky to have him around you when you are in need.I think he gt a feeling on you :)) if you are not ready, let your friendship flows till you're ready. If he is your destiny and you both are meant to be together, nothing can stop you :)
Goodluck
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
3 Aug 12
yes, i am lucky..because i have him around me when i am in needs. Currently i am not ready to get in the relationship yet, just be friend only. I know that guy is worry for me and care me, i appreciate his caring, but not the love yet from my side. I am happy with my present...
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@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
Falling in love is hard to stop. Maybe it is just an illusion because of your closeness to each other. Get to know him better and don't rush things. I feel that you still want more time for yourself. 
@Pavan_m01 (115)
• India
17 Aug 12
Take your own time, Try to understand him better.Make sure he is trust worthy. Only if you think He suits you then you can take step forward.
@paulli3 (312)
• China
5 Aug 12
if you think it is good to fall in love, you will do what you want to do, think seriously, then have a better life, it is your best choice, you should be sure you are ready to have a new life, if you are not ready, you can wait for more time.
in all, make your chioce you want, good luck!
@Vizboy (18)
•
3 Aug 12
If you enjoys the guys company and you aways want to talk to him them i would say you all ready in love with me and you have had all the time you need dont lose what you want by saying you need time you never know he might not wait for you that long before jumping into someone else arm
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
3 Aug 12
hihihi, he is around me for 2 years since i met him..
Well, i understand your mean, but ...
umh...i don't know, i am not sure it is a love even though i like to talk with him. talking with him is nice and happy...but i will note your advice...thank you so much..
@sunshinefame (287)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
Hi ryanong, you are right it's nice to fall in love again or what we say to have an inspiration when someone cares for us. But being single again lol is more nicer, having experienced to have a relationship and free again is another stage much time to ponder and careful for the second time around, just a pice of advice enjoy his company, the sweet nothing's conversations which tickles our heart and makes us young. But don't plunge immediately know him more his character and attitudes. Wish you happiness with him. Hope he will be the right guy for you. :)
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Sep 12
Thank you so much for your wish. Till now he is still sweet to me, chat and care me as usual and i have to say i am very happy with my single time when i still have someone caring me.
You are right, being single sometime is very nice also, all as a new page of a book...I will meet that guy again soon..and see he is my right man or not...
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
That's the spirit. :) You have to take your time for you to say that you're inlove again. :) You must be sure of your feelings so that you won't get hurt. Love waits so just be patient. Like what I did when I was in highschool. I waited for my boyfriend to court me. It took me for almost 4 years before he courted me. Good thing my tactics and positive vibes worked. :D lol. Well, I hope you can find a man who can make you happy and love you as much as you do. :)
@jelynbaxa (52)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Time you need it you need to grow and earn so that the foundation of your friendship is endless.Love starts in friendship if you really are into him go for it just be careful not all the things in your mind will just flow you need to think also the many consequences in your decision.
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
3 Aug 12
There is nothing wrong with taking things slow, rushing into things usually results in flaws or failure. Gaining a great friendship is the most important step for a relationship anyways, so I would just keep building the friendship and maybe flirting once in awhile wouldn't hurt anything either.
@love4kolkata (279)
• India
3 Aug 12
Love is something which I consider pure and refreshing. Its something that can happen anytime in our life. Everything is fair in love. Its a wonderful feeling. Just enjoy with your new friend and have a great time. Just remember we are gifted only one life. Spend it with your loved one. There's no curse more tougher than spending our life alone!!!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
3 Aug 12
Thank you so much for your response.
Yes, i agree with you too, love can happen anytime in our life...currently i am happy when i have that guy around to care me, but fall in love, i am not yet...i may need more time...but the feeling when be cared is great, i like it...
Yes, i agree with you too, love can happen anytime in our life...currently i am happy when i have that guy around to care me, but fall in love, i am not yet...i may need more time...but the feeling when be cared is great, i like it...
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
3 Aug 12
Hi friend, you mentioned that you like his company, i think you like him, do you always think about him and forget about your activities due to the thoughts? it is the symbol of love. You forget about yourself and always think about the beloved person, if you have this, then you are in love
@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
Yes, there's no need to rush and enter into another relationship if you know deep inside that you're not ready for a new commitment.
Just enjoy his company. I believe in the idea that romantic relationship is strengthen by real friendship. That way, you'll learn to accept each other unconditionally.
Remember this, "If you were once happy with the wrong one, how much more if the right one comes along?"
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
3 Aug 12
With me love comes natural way..and i just let it come if my heart wants. Currently i am enjoying with my single time and happy when have his caring, but fall in love, i am not ready yet...I don't know how to test..but with the time, i can know more about him and see he matches with me or not..but it is later, not now...hihihihi
