how lucky you are in your referrals?!

@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
August 2, 2012 5:25am CST
haha! i have five referrals already, but none of them got my vigor and perseverance or serious involvement into this site to contribute discussions so to earn some points. i guess, it is not their line to do the writing and to compose small stories or paragraphs to share it here with. well to say, to stick around here, you need willingness and interest as your drives in making little success. but maybe some reasons for them not pursue on writing is that they encountered some hardships as they construct theirs to share, even i tried my best to explain to them what to do. i also helped them to understand the do's an don'ts. another one is that one friend of mine here is so willing but time won't permit her to escape just to hang in mylot. but it is okay. better luck next time. i want them to experience enjoyable moments spent here. maybe i can meet someone who is interested in the field sooner -
9 responses
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
you are not alone... :D maybe it's really difficult to force them if their interest is not really into blogging. But I love it here. I love to share my thoughts, my experiences, my opinions. And you are right most of my friends also cannot commit themselves here because of time. Can I make you my referral instead? lol...
@riyauro (6421)
• India
2 Aug 12
yeah we can't force anyone. But only if they could realize it that spending little time here can accumulate to a big amount which be of some help when in need. good day to you.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
2 Aug 12
wow some good saying huh!. yeah lots are called but few follow. I guess we are lucky to have known the truth about mylot, where we are learning as well as earning. good day missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
you are not alone by michael jackson - haha... our interest in here does not fit to theirs that is why we cannot convince them in here. they join, maybe because they are curious or at least they would to give a try. well, earning here while learning is a worthwhile opportunity without investing any money. your capital here is interest, enjoyment and earning. well, even if it is tough to be around but this site is pulling you always that is why we are here. so to say, lots are being called but few does follow ahah... thanks for posting here ;)
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
It's really not that easy for me to convince my friends to join this site. Most are really busy with their work (and Facebook). My best bet probably is to have unknown people sign up through my referral link but till now I haven't actually utilize that. Pity that they're missing something fun that pays
@riyauro (6421)
• India
2 Aug 12
yeah some people are so busy on facebook and if they gave same time to mylot, it would be of some gain. Facebook is not worth spending time I guess lol
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
oh yeah, i guess so. balance your time and spend it wisely. being here is worthwhile. you are like joining a social site where you can make friends, and so lots of reasons why a person should be here. but i guess, refer this to a friend with the same interest and vigor, well we are not saying, something bad will happened if we can recommend this one to disinterested people but to hope your efforts would not be wasted. it is not so easy make tutorial and trying your best to let them understand what is it to be here. thanks riyau. :)
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
oh yeah, right at that. we enjoy and at the same time we earned. all you need to do is to solicit some ideas and to give what is yours as long as you are sticking with their guidelines. not our luck to convince them good, maybe along the way, we'll meet new friends that have same interest as ours. and that is as skill in writing to share our ideas, emotions, perceptions and all. thanks beamer for joining this discussion.
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
12 Aug 12
After long continued efforts, I managed to get some referrals. But most of them are inactive at present. I cannot blame them as because I got them in exchange of sites and frankly speaking, I have also become inactive for some of them. So, in terms of my referrals, I am a little unlucky and I am to blame myself for it.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
for now, frankly speaking, i am not into enthusiast in seeking whom to refer this site with for now because i can see my friends were not into writing - what i mean is that they are interested in terms of literature. i am getting good timing for this because it is hard to convince them and explain basic things to do in here then your effort will diminish to nothing. but it is okay, at least i am trying. maybe i can have bunch of them in the future in another group of people. :)
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
22 Aug 12
I have no single refferals and I dont want to make referrals because I know then will never do the work here.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
good for you how your referrals would work in here. at least, you are not expecting something big from others and because of that you cannot feel upsetting moments as you expected you can earn something from them because of the aim and the rules in here, make referrals and get some percentage from their works. but i really do not want to think like that because i know all of us have differences in life like to our interest, and such alike sort of thing. but still maybe along the way, i can meet someone that has an interest to write in here like all of us who engaged themselves to post discussions or to answer any thread of stories up in here, so i would like to share this wonderful opportunity i so experienced in mylot. thanks for the participation in here :)
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Well I am not really lucky in terms of referrals so I dont try get even one here. Quite easy maybe to convince to join but so hard for them to be so active here. Well some got active referrals but for me it is quite unlucky.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
same here... i kept on telling to my friends that there is a sight that i joined recently and so much as i like it here and enjoy as well, at the same time, you can earn somehow. oh well where you can find such site like that. yeah to my referrals, i really like to share such happiness i would felt when hanging in here already. not just earn but also to learn. a wonderful opportunity to have to be thank of - thanks for posting in here ;)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
Hi missjahn, i can see that what's missing in many of our referrals is the enjoyment we get from the discussions. I can clearly see in you that you are also enjoying sharing discussions here in mylot as i do. I guess getting more referrals will be god in a sense that the law of average would say that some of them would also be interested in the discussions and would stay active. I currently have 20 referrals now and about 2 or 3 are active or semi active. A few are just starting out so I don't have a good idea if they would soon become active. I think having contact with them would help...if we find the right words to say, like showing them the good things about mylot, etc...
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
hi better oh yes, i really enjoyed it here. i also talked with them but would likely to tell me that they are still busy that is why they cannot make it along the way and that maybe in time if the schedule is not that so tight, they will try to explore and drop in here to comment or even to start a discussion. i even helped them to understand the guidelines, on what those all about. oh gee, their interest are not like ours. hope we met earlier and you are under my referral so that i will become progressive in sharing this site - haha .. thanks for joining into this discussion. :)
@riyauro (6421)
• India
2 Aug 12
I have not been lucky when it comes to referrals. I have 10 referrals but they are also not serious at all. I wish they could change their mind and take part in this discussion. The person who referred me is very lucky since i ma striving to earn good here. he has already got like $2.50 under me. He is a lucky guy. I wish my referrals could do better.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
2 Aug 12
yeah you are so true. This is a way to thank them for introducing mylot to us. happy mylotting.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
hehehe... the one who referred me here is lucky too. in 3 weeks, she already earned almost a dollar already... ;) but I do not think about it. It's maybe my own way of saying to her thank you for bringing me to mylot.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
2 Aug 12
haha... i guess getting some of our kind who are interested in writing would be that tough. means to say that we are rare of a kind - haha. one reason why we cannot convinced them fruitfully it is because they lack interest and they find hardship on how to convey their thoughts and ideas. well, we excel somehow to written skill even we are furnishing it perfectly. well, it is their choice and there is nothing we can do about that. thanks riyau
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
2 Aug 12
Not lucky at all with referrals unfortunately. I don't actually give family members or friends my mylot referral link, reason being that I don't want people I know in real life reading my posts, especially since I turn to mylot for a lot of personal advice that I don't care to share with them!
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
you have a point though. we have the same thinking that it is shameful to open an discussion while the subject of the it can read it. it worries me so that i have this girl in school that i was so annoyed about. but then we became friends again and i made her as my referral. well, i do not care, even i feel awkward about it. for i know she knew that partly it was her fault why got angry with her. so if she will make any confrontation, i will face her and explain things to her that it is really part of writing a discussion in mylot. and i have a sister who also joined her. i knew that her kind of thinking is wide that she will not laugh at me for at least i expressed my thoughts and even typed my experiences, so what is the difference. i am only doing what i think is good and to post and to commit would make it much better to stay active herewith. this is the kind of life in mylot. getting nice informations to share to people who are in here. thanks for joining into this discussion. i have a sister that i planned to be my referral when the cpu will be okay soon. :)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
So far out of the three referrals I had, only one officially joined, and that sole person is not even a tiny bit active in her account, too sad, but I am not losing hope on my future referrals since I just new here.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
haha... it is alright. we fail today but we still not end the fight to make new referrals with a hope we can hit someone with the same interest we able to share. do not be sad, there is big chance for you. for now, do your job well and be active in here and then later on, refer this site to a friend so that you will be able to share your experiences and how happy it is to be here. good luck for hunting some referrals that will brought you success and share of profit -:)
• United States
2 Aug 12
I have horrible luck when it comes to referrals. Not just on here but on other sites too. I have like three or four referrals on here. Only one was ever really active. One was briefly but I think when he realized he couldn't "get rich" on here, he lost interest immediately. Honestly though I would rather have referrals on Swagbucks than here between the two. But my luck there isn't any better unfortunately.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
haha! well, if we are pushing our luck to find it here to become rich, you better forget it. we cannot earn millions here but the joy and the experiences we've gone through in here are priceless. well, at least it is to us who have the same interest in writing. it is really hard to convince them to write into this site. let us just consider that all the people have different interests, wants, demands and alike. leave them be as long they will leave us what we want to be. thanks for joining in here ;)