people encourager, blossomer

Exactly. How will we know something if we refuse to know it? If we refuse to learn, to inquire, etc? If we are not encouraged, something is wrong. But we are always affected-positively or negatively. If we examine ourselves and delve into our depths why we are not encouraged-we will know the reason. If we learn the reason-isn't that something else? We will change!

Yes this is a very difficult situation when you act as a savior for some one else when you needed some one very badly in your life to encourage and motivate you. This has been my situation many times but i have forgotten my plight and rather inspired others so that i can see them happy and content and be happy by seeing them back to the normal life.