Actions Speak Louder than Words...........or Do They?

I think with the right words if you let them, they can break bones too. Some things when it's from someone you really love just stick. And we do say a lot of things we do mean, that we wouldn't normally say when we are mad. Sometimes hard truths come out. And in a positive notes, some words can change people lives if said or written in the right way.

I think words hurt some time a lot more than scratch and bruises . I think you can fight and make up but when a person say hurtful things about you behind your back or in public it will really hurt especially coming from someone that matter. I think it really depend on who is saying it , when it is someone you care about and trust it will probably be unforgivable , but for some people you dont know it will not matter in my opinion . I would forgive a person if it was said in a heat of the argument but not when a person intentionally try to hurt you .

Yes thats true though it doesn't mean they tried to hurt us, its just their outlet to burst out what they feel inside if they're angry though if were the one close to them we normally get the worst coz they know we can understand them and will never leave them, I sometimes do that to my family as i was stress out and hated my boss nor work and when i got home and if saw a little things that i don't like i normally shout to them though it don't mean it at all its just that it triggers me to burst out my hidden feelings that i cant explode at work as i might get terminated so at least in the house i will not as they will not leave coz they are my family no matter what. They just ignore it then after a while when im already ok i just bought our favorite food and start talking to them again like nothing happened so at least my feelings is no longer heavy.

It would be better to do it on actions than words because if it was done in actions at least you can see their are changes because he/she is showing the changes within her/him but it was on words. He/She will tell it again and again and nothing would happen. Like me, my big sister always tell me that I should show it on my actions if I am sincere with my faults or mistakes rather than saying the same words that nothing happens because it will be said again and again with sometimes annoying with someone. We could forgive someone of what happens and he/she told only once not as many times which is not anymore sincere.