when life is getting tougher and your best confidante is?

And who's on the "dark side"

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lyn, Talking to trusted friends is not bad I can release my stress and can get good advice from them. at least that's the best option than talking with the "dark side"

you know God put people on this earth to help one other so you dain to disagree with him? missjahn no all people are evil a lot of us are very good people. I am used toi confiding i n my friends'as they are true friends, I believe that we must first stand on our own to feet rather than whine to God and ju st give up . i do trust my frie nds and I also trustGod bu t sti ll I think God does not want us to be cryb abies always hav e to hand on him an never trying to help ourselv e,

hello there - there are still friends who you can trust upon, i agree with you. but it is not in my system to confide it to my friends more if i thought so, that my problems need confidentially or i need to privatize not to be embarrass in the future. i will find to manage to solve my problems in a different way with the one i believed i can really rely on (He is God). thanks for your participation :)

oh yeah... confession to someone that you cannot trust to is not a good way to lessen your burden. worst, it will drag you to more complication and dipped you more to much trouble. believe in your instinct and put God in the middle. confess it to God and He will show you the way. we have common about that. i am not used of confiding it to my friends. i do not like the feeling of it. i trust myself and God. although after the storm i will make my experience for fun and laughed with it. thanks for joining in here

I agree with your sentiment. When times get rough, spirituality and a good look inside yourself are very helpful. I know it may sound simple, but this is what we have no matter where we go, our spirituality and the positive influence it gives on our attitude.

do things without the help of other people is tough action. but trusting it to the Lord will help it all. i am not that kind of person who confides my weaknesses to others because in myself i knew some of them are not good listeners and some would just tap your shoulder and tell, you can make it. when talking about this matter, i want a sincere conversation that one might listen attentively. what is the use of your chattering when one is not interested to listen to you. thanks for joining into this discussion....

our attitude will help deal with our problems. when even so down, stand still and do not be upset. our problems strengthen our weaknesses most of the time. being close to God would be the best answer to everything like what i keep on telling here . thanks

hey bhaby, rest in peace- not now... you haven't given your mom International nursery

exactly that's why I don't say I AM TIRED

yes baby, hello there - life is not easy to deal with. lots of worries, problems and such... but let me cry now for i know in a moment later, i will be happy and gay. alright - i can rest in peace too as long as i am sure i can seek a way to heaven and not in hell

good for you for having your mom as your supporter and you bestfriend. we can really trust our mom to every aspect. but in terms to that, our interest would differ in accordance to where ourselves put our confidence, and luck goodly. some put theirs to their mother like you, some to their friends or peers, some to their partner, but most of all, nothing beyond compare when your put your all trust to God :)

good for you. i have important persons in my life too that i can confide my problems with. but i am comfortable in God, so to speak. i know i can trust them but i do not want to share with them when i am in my miseries. i want to work it with my own. i can even tell my sister, my bestfriend, my momma, my boyfriend, but i am not comfortable more if the problem is too embarrassing to tell it to them. but really, my office mates before consoled me when i met an instance that caused me a problem. they did not leave me. but what is advices, i do not want to hear it but feeling the way i feel uplifted my spirit to pursue to have a solution to that problem. i guess because, it is me who knows me and that is me who can solve it. but you know, i have a different problem that my momma and my friends figured it out, but those are not kind of embarrassing problem so that is why it is okay to ask help from them. i guess, i confide to my friends the problems i had or have depending on its kind. so i guess, that explained it best. thanks for sharing your experience in here :)

hi there. i guess, because they have their own worries to attain too and that if we tell it to them, maybe they cannot attend to that kind of needs to solve our problems. so there, another problem would begin that they are disinterested to listen to us. that would hurt our feelings. so better find our own ways to solve the problem and if we believe in God, finding the solution would not be so tough, it will just come in our way and do it share to entangle the knots. thaks for sharing your thoughts in here. appreciated it much :)

hello there. i guess the type of the problem is the barrier why i cannot tell my problems directly to them. when it is kinda embarrassing, i do not want to share it to them. but if it is a slight problem i can confide it to them, even in a joke manner. i am too preoccupied with my thoughts so not to be able to think to tell it to my friends. because that time, i am praying and talking to God what to do. it is Him i talked first in my mind. thanks for sharing your point of views in here :)

jai - since our first meeting here, this is the best thing you had to say to me. and you hit a hundred tons appraisal for that. for if God will forbid a thing, there is nothing we can do about it. coz in our life, He knew what is the best thing for us to have. all we need is faith, trust and to wait.

I only have one thing to say... "first impressions mostly are wrong misconception" A lifetime is not enough to know a person, unless you give that person a chance to prove thyself. And to know a person deep within- is to clear your mind from any negative impressions.

a person could be versatile and even quickly can changed his mood from this to that. that is why, you cannot judge someone because of what the person shown you at first. this kind of misbehaviour i tried to straightened out from my innate being. for a person himself cannot explain himself from the thing that ever happened to him. thanks for sharing your thoughts in here.

just pray your worries in God and put everything to Him. He is the only one we have that never ever really change. never loss hope. maybe a talk with them would help too why such thing happened like that. it is nice to hear them saying the exact explanation maybe you are wrong with your expectation. be brave :)

oh yeah - i feel for you riempie but at least you feel that your mother love you so much. you cannot uproot the love you felt to someone that once a dear to you and that played a great part of your life.

haha - do not cry, you will soon get a good job. oh yes, God is everything and He is always near us even we are so regimented child of HIS, even we kept repeating our lapses to him. and even blaming Him to the bad occurrences in your life. we cannot measure his patience and love. yes i have friends but not confiding to ask support from them. it is just okay to be like this. when things went right, that is the time i will share my stories to them =)

oh yeah - right at that. God is the best confidante among all. good for you that you found your match that encourages you and give your strength. i believe in what you and others said. glad that it all works to you all. :)

i am grateful for the shared thought but i am okay with my schemes. maybe i am a hard-headed person. but i won't solicit others advice as possible as i can. i can tell it to them after the typhoon had subsided but while the problem is hot, it will make me more anxious. i will taking a place silently then my mind whirling what to do as i uttered my prayer too. God will help me find my way. thanks to you