Wrong Send!
By bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
August 4, 2012 8:40pm CST
What if you have a friend that you have misunderstanding with and have not talk to for couple of years and suddenly you receive a text from him saying hello and some greetings and when you reply nicely also he suddenly reply its a wrong send. What will be your reaction?
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8 responses
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 12
For me, I shall reply to the message again. I should let him know that it was because of my proper polite manner especially as a well educated person to interact with other people.
Hopefully, everyone here can understand the right manner in handling the similar case again.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I will not going to waste my time to send another message. Its only shows that you are affected if you going to send back. I will just simply ignore him and if he going to take again. I will just going to say. Do I know you? lols.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
5 Aug 12
instead of sending reply it is better to accept the position and forget about that relationship. No one person is to be dependent on any other person. we may like and at the same time learn to be away.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I do agree. Why bother to reply right? Its a waste of free text or few cents if you just going to reply to this nonsense person. Right now I'm planning to chance number so that I will not be tempted to text those who are in my phone books who does not bother to text me anymore.
@cagampan1991 (364)
• Philippines
26 Aug 12
Of course i will feel sad because i thought that our relationship would get better but it was only a wrong send. It seems that he's like joking, sending a text then he will tell later that it was a wrong send.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
That's true. Its frustrating but same time you can do nothing about it. If you get irritated then you are the one who loses also as you go affected. But in my part I will just simply going to delete your number and don't bother to reply to him at all.
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
5 Aug 12
hi bulastika!
for me it's okay at-least he still save your contact number , my reaction would be not that happy because still he is mad or the misunderstanding is still there but, there is always an opportunity of saying sorry or asking for forgiveness...
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I don't see that he is mad by saying that its a wrong send. But for me if you send a greeting even though its a wrong send you still going to say that its a wrong send? That's what irritates me. If its wrong send fine. But I'm not a type of person who going to say its a wrong send unless its going to give negative notation to that person and that's why I need to tell him its a wrong send.
@savagecabbage (1216)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
Well that is awkward. i think i will just not reply back since it is a wrong send. Happy mylotting.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I do agree. Its a waste of time to reply if its a wrong send. I don't want to waste my load also just to reply again. For me a person like that is not worth my time at all. In fact at that moment I delete his name in my phonebook. Period.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I guess you are that open for reconciliation but I'm not that type of person. I'm also open for reconciliation if a friend of mine is willing also. But if its not then I guess its useless to ask for reconciliation as if I really need him as a friend. I'm happy as I am and having a friend that taking back a text by saying its a wrong send although he only send a greetings text for me is not worth a friend at all.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
5 Aug 12
bulastika:
yes. you were not in touch for a long time on account of misunderstanding. suddenly sms received from that person and you replied. it may be that the earlier msg was wrongly sent. accept it. let status quo ante remain(as is where is) - both are not in talking terms. you cannot force yourself to the friend.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I don't think I can do that. Its not going to remain that way. But rather I don't consider that person a friend anymore. For me theirs nothing to gain to have a friend like that person. So its better to move on and have other friends. I just don't like living with hate or anger or feeling pity that I loss a friend.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
5 Aug 12
I will just say okay, no worries. I will not take back what I have said. If she's got a problem with that, then that's her problem not mine. I am not the type of person who sweats over the small stuff, she is still a friend afterall. A misunderstanding is not a reason for us to cease being friends unless we really refuses to acknowledge the friendship anymore.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I guess your really not in battle mood. lols. For me its an act of war. lets face it. Even if its wrong send do you need to say that its a wrong send? its not like a gift that you can ask it back right? I don't think its worth it to keep a friend like that if you ask me.
