How can I get over a Broken Heart?

Take the proper time out - make sure you give yourself a proper amount of healing time, otherwise you maybe for it later.. Accepting your new reality.....without resentment - the heartbreak is over and your ready to step out into the world, what now? Your past relationship was full of great memories, experiences and adventures, why put negative feelings towards them just because things didn't work out? Find a way to express your emotions litvillegas...hope it works :)

Hi! I too got fell in love and i thought he was the one for me so when he left me for another women, it crushed my whole being. I was lost. I even thought of ending my life because i thought no one will love me like he did. On my healing process, it took me 5months before i totally forgave him and then moved on. I did a lot to help me forget him like making myself busy, fling with my ex-bf, go out with friends but it didn't work. You know what worked for me?prayer... I swear i didn't know but one night i prayed and cried hard to God and ask Him to help out and i told Him all my hurtful feelings, i told Him what i am afraid of.. i told Him everything and most especially i asked Him to help me forgive my ex- bf. You know after i prayed?peace came in me instantly. Everything follows... i started to get busy then i didn't notice im starting again without him in my life and it felt good that i already forgive him.

my love is just broken..and i am not really in deep sorrow..because i took much time to think ..if the relationship is continued, what will come, if not, what will come...when everything is clear and leaving is the best way..then i am ok with it, no cry (even though i am teary)...sometime i just take time to think and think...and then sleep... In fact deep in my heart is very painful, but i am not very sad..it sounds that it doesn't make sense...but when we know clearly that the best way is let it goes, we should let it goes...

Meeting new people. It's not always for a date, but meeting new people and making new friends, will surely ease the pain. That can also keep someone busy.

Hi, it is hard to forget a loved one. It is very very painful. Yeah time and space heals the wound. Life does not stop but has to go on. Almost everyone goes through this stage in life, but getting over it the best. thanks for sharing. have a wonderful day ahead.

Hi litvillegas in my opinion, getting over a broken heart is not as easy as we thought.most women didn't want to eat, go out, they just want to die not knowing that they might find another guy better than their "x". in God has plans for us and we must not waste our time blaming ourselves for the unsuccessful relationship.:)

It is really hard to get over a broken heart. It may be easy to say that time heals a wound. But a wound given by a broken love relationship does not heal so easily. The sadness which overtake you, which make you cry take a long time to leave you. You are right to have mention some of the ways to erase this pain. I personally think that if one person has left you, you should find peace and solace in another person's arm because life does not stop here. Perhaps God has reserved another best person for you and the one who left you was not in your destiny. Do not fool yourself by staying at home and crying. Go out make friends and find a new partner who can give you his shoulder to cry on.

Base on my experience, Prayer and forgiveness will really help.. You cannot move on without forgiving the person who hurt you.. Yes you can move on, but i guess there will be times that it will hit you for some reason.. then you will feel bitterness..

when i got into that situation before i find it difficult to move on until the time i prayed and ask the Lord to help me forgive that guy. You know, in all kinds of relationship when someone got hurt or got a heart broken all we need to do is forgive... Forgiveness is the best and most effective way to move on. If we cannot forgive the person who hurt us, it will always bothers us. Hope this tip would help :)

there is no easy way to move on. it really takes some time to recover specially when both of you had had good good emories with each other. For me, I believe that love is only a state of mind. a strong thinking that you feel something special for someone. as well as hurt or pain. it is only in our minds so we can get over it. if you've been hurt, try to forget all the things that make you sad. instead, reminisce the good memories you had with the person. be thankful that you experience those things with him or her. Forgive each other. Make friends. You have lived half of your life without him.her,so don't say that you cannot live without the person. Open your heart for others. little by little you'll forget about the feelings that hurt you.