My friend doesn't want to take his husband's son from another woman in the house

Its a no if I am just thinking about only my partner's fault and the risk involved with his past girlfriend. But what about the kid??? What crime he/she has done??? He / She doesn't know how he/she came to the world. Feel really bad about the kid's future. Because at the end of the day he/she is in no man's land.

hey okie i understand where your friend is coming from but to me if am her i will have the child live with me or do u want him going behind your back to see him and his mother. all i have to say is trust your husband and let the child in that boy is sure gonna be a blessing to you trust me and you should be happy his taking responsibility other men will abandon their kid you should try and be happy and try to love that child like your own and please don't even think his gonna love the boy more than your kids because it wont happen but if you start thinking that way then is gonna happen because sometime we human think way too far. so what am gonna say to your friend is love the kid as your own and you guys should live happy i know is not easy but you need to for the love you have for your husband and kids. And tell her to keep praying for right direction.

At first, maybe I will also feel worried. I know that his son doesn't have any fault so if I were in her shoes I will accept the child. If there will be conflicts then that's the time I'm going to tell him that maybe he did the wrong move. I will give the child an opprtunity to be with his father. Even that will be awkward to me. I am also a daughter so if I will imagine myself to be an illegitimate child, maybe I'll be pitiful. I would try my best to have a good relationship with his son and his ex-gf.

I think it could cause problems for her if she doesn't. It depends on how much the father wants his son to be with him. Either way I think there might be a problem. What does the little boy's mother say? Does she want him to live with the father? Could they share him? Could he maybe stay with the father at certain times and then live mostly with his mother? I don't think there is an easy solution to this and your friend should look for and examine all the options. Whatever happens, she should treat the little boy as nicely as possible. This is not his fault. This is a difficult situation for your friend. I wish her good luck.

If this situation come to me,I will accept that kid,pls noted,the kid is innocent,if you guy drop that kid,what can he do?I think we can not so rude to a little kid. And from another point of view,I think if you love your husband,you should love all of him,include that kid,and if you treat this kid the same with your own child,I think your husband will love your more and cherish you more,do you think so?

To tell you the truth, I don't like it. And I won't accept the illegitimate child. I think most persons are not willing do that , either. Now your friend must feel terrible about that. Did she never think about it before her marriage? Her husband just can't throw his son away. I think she had better accept the son if she loves her husband , or divorced.It's brutal, I know.

I would do the same as your friend because i don't want my husband getting in contact with the other women and this boy will make that connection. I will be very jealous. I have a cousin who is in this same situation, but she is very okay about the boy. She treats the boy and her own and I don't know how she can do that. I think she is friendly with other women also. I would just don't want the boy to stay with us. have a wonderful day.