success has its price
By tigeraunt
@tigeraunt (6326)
Philippines
August 7, 2012 6:42am CST
first the ambition to be someone in the future. then the eagerness to be on top. and once on top, the higher, the busier it gets.
then one starts to reflect, is this what i want? when can i find quality time for the family? i cant find time to rest or go on vacation. am i happy like this?
what will make a person happy and contented?
ann
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9 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
10 Aug 12
Based on my own experiences in my life and also those observations that I have seen of other families in my life, I tend to think that not having a lot of money but being able to spend quality time with your family and friends is a far better option than to work hard during all of your life while not having the opportunity to really have friends or to have a close relationship with your family members. I would rather have the relationships that I have with my people while living paycheck to paycheck.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
hello dora,
i guess thats where the happiness lies.
have a nice day.
ann
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
hello Ann
what will make a person happy and contented?
Contentment and peace of mind.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
hi jaiho,
what is peace in one's mind? bliss and calmness, clear conscience, no enemies, contentment. whether at work, or in life, there should be that thing happiness or no contentment at all.
have a nice day.
ann
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
I have a clear conscience because I do not assume things.
Bliss and calmness- yes.
No enemies- I don't make enemies. If people hate me for unknown reason that is beyond control. As long as I do not have hatred in my heart it's not my problem anymore.
Contentment- yes, I am happy with my life and I don't owe anyone an explanation.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
hello kiran,
sometimes balancing is not possible because of the demand of time at work. the only solution is find another. but then it wont be giving the same benefits as what is there now.
have a nice day.
ann
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Aug 12
Hi friend, we must organize our time and allocate some good time for our family members, since family is important to us than any other things and take care of our health by taking proper breaks, it will give new energy and motivates you to reach success.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
7 Aug 12
Financial freedom is what is going to make a person happy and content. Everything is because of money. If I get a million dollars, I will surely be happy and content. I will open a business which will whenever I want to open and close. So that I have time to my family and we can go on holidays as well. thanks for sharing, have a wonderful day.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
money makes the world go round they say. but what if it is just money you get and more time needed for work because if you dont add more work to your time, you will lose your job?
thank you for your response. God bless.
ann
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
7 Aug 12
That would most likely be the outcome if you let yourself be consumed by that alone. But it can have a different twist if you would learn to balance money and those things which money can't buy, like family time, or good relationship with your kids. Anyway, they're the reason why one wants to succeed and be financially well, right? Our family and loved ones?
Just balance.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
youre right raine. guess am consumed by work. and the only way to get out of it is to resign. there is no other way to balance. if i dont put my head on work, i will ot satisfy the very dominant boss.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
10 Aug 12
Honey
You are well aware that success does not come over night, it needs constant struggle; and luck is a factor too
One can reach the top but slowly.
@Gautam1002 (730)
• India
10 Aug 12
I have come across these statements from nearly all my elders when I quote my ambition as being enormously successful or making money. I do realize the vitality of this statement but I guess one cannot ever bring this fact into himself until he has been into a situation where he is not having time for himself due to his profession. I myself though after realizing this too still want to keep my ambition same as it was because once there I know I will follow what you said. Following it now I think would be an obstacle in my success path.
@Pavan_m01 (115)
• India
7 Aug 12
According to me the price you have to pay for attaining success is 'Sacrifice'. You have to sacrifice some precious things like money, time, even love and care of your dear ones, in your life to attain success. Success means money will come by itself.
Now in order to be happy only money is not enough. You also need Time and love of your dear ones. But if you want to be spend time with family, you cant run behind the success.
So to be happy and to be successfull you need strike a 'proper balance' between your personal life and official life. Time management plays a very important role. I suggest you to prepare a proper timetable may be for a year, which should have one or two vacations. some small parties, and other important details. Remember time management important to get a well balanced life.