enjoy the lonely time

China
August 7, 2012 8:51am CST
frankly, i am tired of this boring life, go to work, go back home...i am longing to travel in another country, to be away from all these troubles: low payments, no house, no car...sometimes, i am just puzzled, why is my life so hard? i hate myself, especially when my parents were begging others to give me a good job, many times i was thinking that what i am living for? just for job or money? i had never tried by myself to live on my own, it is a pity i do know my telents, i can not show it to make myself shining, however it wlii be not last long, i am sure that somewhere in the sweeping, intricate pattern of people there is a special place where i can make my self fit.
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11 responses
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
7 Aug 12
When I was aged 19 years old I bought my little cottage in Kent and I worked as a container marketing controller in London. I was very sad to be made redundant when I was 20 years old. I hated not having a job and found all the job searching soul destroying. My home country was deeply in a recession and it seemed unlikely I would find another shipping job or any other sort of work. I dreamed of doing some more traveling to fill up some of this time I couldn't find any work in my home country. I let out my cottage and got a working holiday visa for Australia. I bought an airline ticket around the world and it cost around one thousand pounds. I planned a trip of around six months but ended up staying just over one year on my trip of a lifetime. I loved it in homely Australia, adored amazing Fiji and explored South East Asia with delight. When I came back home I decided to do some studying and fill in employment. I did temporary work for a bank and an insurance company. I applied to study at university and got accepted. I studied education and English Literature. I became a primary school teacher when my course ended. So I loved traveling then studying and training for a new career when I came home. At the current time my home country is in recession. Many people are unemployed here. Good luck.
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• China
8 Aug 12
Life is so different in China, i was studying in high school when i was aged 19 years old and working hard for the college entrance examination.Fianlly, i passed the exam and went to start a new life. During the four years in my college, i enjoyed myself a lot, maybe it will be my happiest time throughut my whole life.I made many good friends, and we go shopping and travelling, play cards and study hard to get scholarship,that happy and light-hearted time will never come back, i missed them and i miss them. Eeryone in China regard it as common that when we graduate, we lose jobs. Jobs are much easier to those who are rich or powerful. We can just work and work ... I was longing for life like yours, you have woderful life experience and you have free time. Good luck to you, and to me as well.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
7 Aug 12
Oh that is bad that you are so unhappy. You have to stop think all that. You have some talent that you are ignoring and don't want to accept. everyone has some talent in them. I have so many. I love painting, craft work, singing and many more. I love to do these things and I am pretty good at it. I hope you will find your happiness soon. have a wonderful day.
• China
8 Aug 12
Maybe i was just too hasty, i cared about too much and colud not wait to achieve everything, all what i should do is be patient and optimistic, and go step by step. I am only 23 years old, life is long.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 12
At times life seem really boring especially when we are doing things that we do not like. Working in the field which we are passionate will be a totally different picture. I hope you will find something you love and passionate about. Make it into your dream job and live life to the fullest. However, it is good that you still have a job that pays. Do your best and at the same time search for the thing you want in life. All the best
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
10 Aug 12
I'm doing the same thing even half month ago.So i choose to go home for someday and have a relax with my family member.How cool is this big relaxation.I'm sure you wanna change,so just try to develop some other habits and you may find leisure in life.Just good luck and hope you can have a try.
@else22 (4317)
• India
7 Aug 12
Years ago I didn't have a job.My father had expired.Consequently I had no money to subsist my family that consisted of eight members then.I tried my best to get a job,but in vain.I tried to start a business by taking a loan from bank,but failed.So I decided to do what I was best at.I decided to write articles for Hindi magazines.Hindi is my mother tongue.A year later I had enough money to sustain my family.In addition,I got many friends as well.After then I got a job.
• China
7 Aug 12
Thanks for your timely attention.Just years, you have your own success and your own life, it is your courage and perseverance that works, maybe not everyone is lucy, but i tried, who caries.i know what i am going to do: be confident and do what i am good at.
• India
8 Aug 12
Your last few words were the ones one would like to listen from an individual. Now you feel you are a dumb as you do not know what you are good at. I would like to add it here that it is something very tough to know who you are. Though we find it easy to judge others but knowing what is good in us in not as easy. You need to mirror yourself. Just keeping mind open I think will be enough. I agree you are facing some problems because of your low profile job. But remain optimistic. You will find yourself definitely at a much better situation. And yes one more thing, you know yourself best the problem you are facing has only a single solution. Talk to yourself about the same. Do what you feel right. Thank you.
@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
Hello there! i think there really is a time in our lives that we have to go through this difficulty. I know there are those who didn't have to go to a lot of trouble just to land a job. But keep the spirit up and maintain the positive attitude. Keep your goals and never give up. In time, you will be able to get what you want.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
8 Aug 12
Hello Srr, Everyone person has some talent only thing is to identify it and to skill it to an extent that it becomes a quality of that person.I know these days to get a job is not so easy but you should not lose hopes and must try harder.
• India
8 Aug 12
Dont be so depressed my friend every one in there life have hard time also have good time.but it will take some time to recover from bad time.So try to have some small trips with your family to avoid this mental tensions.Also try some good jobs by your own and also work hard for some days to make your parents happy and enjoy their life.
@bond027 (107)
• India
8 Aug 12
Hello Friend !! I see you have some questions to be answered.Its good everyone has questions even I had some like what I like to do in life and How can I make my life interesting and so on.But only thing I can say is the questions you asked are very good but you need to ask all those questions to yourself and get answers from yourself.No one else in this world can give correct answer of those questions except you.Yes its true some questions are difficult to answer and that is when you feel life is harsh or its hard to live.....BUt eventually when you get an answer it becomes easy my friend..!! Wish you all the best and Happy Mylotting...:) Be Happy and Make Happy :):)
• Pakistan
8 Aug 12
now a days jobs and money making opportunities are very short. most people of the world are poor and have low income because jobs are not available. most people have no car,no job and even no house. many young man spent lonely life because they have no enuf money to get marry or get other facilities. we should make a strong plain to get ride of these crises .