A total turn around

I am in the very same situation with you here in my present job! I've reached my comfort zone and I feel like I'll slowly lose my compassion anytime. I have an option to change my career path now but there are so many if's and but's. Thinking of the pro's and con's has given me sleepless nights. Then there's the risk of losing everything good and stable that I have now, that although deep inside I really, really feel I can do this and excel if I do make that shift, but what if I don't? What will happen to me? My husband did not give me a go signal when we talked abOut it but he also did not discourage me. He told me to think it over and decide for myself. That made it harder because I'm really torn in between crossing the line of change or not. :(

I feel exactly the same at the moment to be honest. I may have an offer of a new job and it's really scary as I have been with this company for 5 years, and have it really easy. I can come and go as I please, and do whatever I want, and I am comfortable and relaxed. This new place would be strict and I would have to be really careful and watch what I do and say and meet all new people! However, it's a good bit more money.. works out at like an extra £200/£250 a month extra after tax.. Do I give up my work comfort, for more money that will bring me more comfort in my work life?

I have made many decisions in my life that seemed to be turning points for me, some good and some bad. I think it is all apart of life. I made one of these decisions just a few months ago. I decided to move closer to my parents. It was a 300 mile move which I might add I had moved the 300 miles away from my family about 14 years ago, so moving back was a very big decision. While the move has been hard on me, I do think it is for the best and I'm hoping everything turns around for me for the good really soon.

Out of your comfort zone, making us independent and grow up. It's my choice.

I don't really understand clearly what the situation you are in. But if you want to escape something, you must do something. If you are lean from your family to live, you must find theway to make money yourself. Also, good luck to you.