it's our anniversary!
By cyfer_agape
@cyfer_agape (95)
Philippines
August 7, 2012 10:58pm CST
Hi! few days from now, me and my love will be having our anniversary celebration again. actually, our relationship now is not as healthy as you think. you see, we kinda having a boring relationship (as per how i see and feel it) and im thinking maybe i could make something or prepare something that would lead us to a more colorful and alive relationship in more years to come. i'll just try so i may know if our relationship will still be saved or not from this state called "boring" .
any suggestions for a romantic, fun and yet affordable date?
thanks ahead:)
6 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
8 Aug 12
I think it's time for the marriage, and fix your boring life to a more interesting one. If you find everything is alright and feel better from both sides, instaed of just a date, why don't you find a better date for the marriage and make the life more fun and enjoyment instaed of this boring romatic life? 
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
8 Aug 12
Yes, it can be! But all depend on you and your dear one. If you think you can make all the boring situations to a heavenly moments, you can; and at the same time, if you think it will fall into a hell situation, this also possible.
The trick lies in-between. Mostly, we always blame for situations and we may find fault with so many reasons also. But if we think we can make our life more energetic, with simple changes here and there in our attitude alongwith our partner can make a grand success in our life, whatever we are engaged in it.
So, throw away all the moody-boring-bitter thoughts from the mind, and be refreshed, positive, and approach everything with a cheering habit, I am sure that you can get a lot from your life in the future. Plan everything together, share good moments with a smile and find better solutions whenver you both are in trouble and take appropriate decisions together and strive for it to get done. The success and nice moments are yours for ever...
It is not just my words, but my experience... you can trust on it. 
@cyfer_agape (95)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
wow. thanks for that. but other thing is that i think im the only one aware of what's really happening in our relationship and i feel that he really does not care about it. i tried to discuss it with him but he would not take it seriously.
@cyfer_agape (95)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
you think so Mr thanks1961? do you think it will not lead to worse scenario?
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
hi there cyfer! i am also in a relationship and when we both feel bored we search and find something that we have not yet done. one example is we went to a resort that was really far from the place and we enjoyed the new place for a day and went home happy. we also went to a store in sm where we painted mouldings and we were happy doing that too
@cyfer_agape (95)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
in sm cebu? im intersted in that painting mouldings? where is that located at sm? i never heard of that since. how much would that cost?
@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
It's a bit sad that you feel bored about your relationship and it has only been for two years. Hope you'll be able to sort that out. In a relationship we must not only maintain the love but we must stay in love. Those are two different things.
Now with the suggestion, just find something that the two of you enjoy the most. It could just be a movie date in your own house and you preparing a candle lit dinner for the two of you in the comfort of your home. Think of what you used to be when you were starting out your relationship and what made activities made you feel excited then.
Good luck and advance happy anniversary.
@cyfer_agape (95)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
thanks for that toniganzon. well yah, im really into the process now of finding ways to maintain that love. i am pretty sure im in love but the other thing? i don't know now. and i think he's not aware what is happening to our relationship or maybe he really doesn't care. im trying to discuss it with him about this boredom but he would just take it as a jest. every time im trying to discuss a serious discussion with him that's what he do.
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
8 Aug 12
hi friend..I think you both are busy in your schedules and not having time to spend with each other.I think you have to go for a vacation where only you both and no other tensions will releave.So plan for a trip and make your relationship healthy. Have a nice day and Happy anniversary in advance.
@uolyram (266)
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
Your relationship would not be boring if you have a family were in your children is there to love and care for. Try to be conversant to your partner so that you will not feel bored. Anniversaries is celebrated to remember happy moments of your life.
@staringat1990s (3)
•
8 Aug 12
life is colorful cause its "dull",you and your lover will live together for many years,you cant expect that there are always sths exciting waiting for you. so i suggest that,why not go someplace that you and you lover had been to?church,park,restaurant or other places.
