trouble in starting new discussions
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
Philippines
August 8, 2012 8:15am CST
I guess I can still count the discussions which I have started myself. Everyday, I have second-thoughts of starting new discussions. I don't know if my discussions were already posted before. I am thinking that it will be just deleted. Do you also sometimes feel what I feel?
4 responses
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
8 Aug 12
i do not care about it. i just start. if there are lots of responses it is worth to start. if it is not than try to find something new. watch news and discuss them. :) there are lots of headings with it. :)
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
8 Aug 12
If there are lots of responses but later it is deleted then everyone who participated will have wasted their time responding.
When we start a new topic for discussion we have a responsability towards others and should do our best to avoid starting a topic which will later be removed.
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@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
@victoria I guess it would be better if we'll share our own life experiences. I guess we won't have any worries if there's an exact discussion existing already. I guess many mylotters share about news. It's risky. If you're the second who posted it, yours will get deleted for sure. Even the time interval is only one second. It's better for us to use myLot search engine first before we start. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting. Sorry for the late reply.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
@ajinleo Thanks. I guess if we started a discussion then it's already existing here, our effort is useless. That's right. We have to search first then start if there are no similar or exact discussions existing. Sorry for the late reply. Happy mylotting.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
@Forever_The_Lamb Maybe it works sometimes but not all the time. There's no harm in trying right. Thanks for participating.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
9 Aug 12
Well a lot of times for me when I choose to start a new discussion it will usually depend on what it is going on or if I just come up with a topic I am interested in talking about. It is true that there are a lot of the same type of discussions started here but if you use a different approach and title on something you usually will have no real issues.
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@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
Oh, thanks so much. Yeah, I guess we have to use different approach and title to avoid our discussion getting deleted. Our time is just useless if it will just get deleted. Sorry for the late reply and happy mylotting.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
8 Aug 12
yes. most of us have it. i also have this fear. This is known as fear of failure. preparedness to accept negative feed back is helpful. We should not commit mistakes knowingly. But if we fear we cannot make any progress.
Do not hesitate. Whatever ideas comes to your mind make it elaborate and start discussions.
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@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
Wow, thanks a lot for responding. Yeah. If we fear, we will not succeed. I guess I have to write anything that comes to my mind. I know different people have differentinterests. If no one responds then maybe it's not their interest. Goodluck to all of us here and let's hope we'll get a lot of responses and comments. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting. Sorry for the late reply.
