Does he want me to stay or he'll be more happy if i go.?

i think you should be calm down when you decide something.. maybe now it is not good situation for you deciding something.. give your time for relaxing

He must be feeling bad because you didn't appreciate how he cared and it must be hard for him because he is far from you and he can't take care of you. I know the feeling because I am working abroad too, and the last thing that I would want to hear is " any one from my loved ones is sick or hurt" it really makes me feel paranoid. And sometimes it makes me so worried I can't concentrate with my job. What I'm trying to say is "maybe he wants you take care of yourself not just for you but also for him". I think he is just trying to make you feel how it feels like to be worried. On the other hand, i guess he is also pissed of you. Just give him some time but if he continues like that in long time, there might be some deeper reasons that you should be worried about. Be aware of the possibilities. Goodluck and God Bless.

It seems to me that he is trying to test what you will do-- to see how much you depend on him. It also sounds to me like he is punishing you for arguing with him. This is not right. You are the one who can decide whether you need to go to a doctor or not. He's not there, and only you know how you feel physically anyway. Has he done this before? I wouldn't play his games. It's really hard to have an argument if there's no one to argue with. When my ex used to do things like this, I would just ignore him entirely. He would try to get me to fight with him so he had an excuse to make me feel bad. So I just didn't fight. After a while, he got tired of me not allowing him to hurt me, and he divorced me. He is now busy making his newest girlfriend miserable. Sooner or later, she will dump him, just like all the other girlfriends he's had in the last ten years-- and he'll find a way to blame me LOL. Remember-- it takes two to make an argument. If you don't play his games, he will either figure out that you aren't playing anymore and stop hurting you, or he'll decide to leave-- either way, you'll be better off emotionally, charm.

hi charm, You know if someone you love is at abroad they can't do anything about your complain they can only send money but they can't give you a hug to comfort you. I think next time if you will not listen to him better not to tell any story that will make him disappoint. Packing and leaving is not a solution at all. happy mylotting