it's really irritating..!!

The details have nothing to do with your brother and shouldn't be told to him no matter what it is. It is basically none of his business. There is nothing you can do about it? Can you try to talk to him and say not to mention the fights you had when they get together? It is out of respect for you and your wishes, so why can't he just talk to a friend of his instead.

hi charm, Seriously? I mean why? maybe they are like brothers too that's why? Well it's your brother I think he won't say anything against you Talk to your husband that this matter should be just between you and him happy mylotting

That would drive me NUTS!! My ex husband always used to start arguments, and then he'd call MY PARENTS to complain about me-- and they'd call me and lecture me. That's just one reason I'm glad he's my ex! For your husband to call family members of yours and discuss your arguments is just wrong, in my book. It sounds to me like he is trying to cause problems between you and your family. Have you tried asking your brother not to get involved? How does your brother react when this happens?

Oh wow that is madness... Does your brother side with him or talk to you after about the disagreement. I think if you haven't spoken to your husband or brother letting them know it bothers you then you should probably do that first starting with your brother because its your husband that goes to him not him asking your hubby questions. That would really drive me mad because I'm the type of person that likes to keep alot between me and my spouse because I don't want my family to get the wrong idea about him if we have a small arguement. Maybe he goes to your brother because he knows he would know you very well and maybe hes just trying to see if he was right or wrong for whatever the arguement is about. It would be good if your brother is open with you and gives you a little bit of insight into their conversation. Hopefully this is helpful.