If life was treating you unkindly what do you do (fight or flight?)

When life gets hard the easiest thing to do is run away, but that doesn't always solve the problem. It's better to be a man and stick it out.

There is no doubt that life is full of ups and downs. Sometime we feel we are treated unkindly when we face diffuculties. When I am treated unkindly, I like shopping and eating a lot of food.

Hi, deodavid: In order to deserve life whether at work or family, you must have the spirit of adventure. Man in charge whether at home or business is facing the problems and trying to find its solutions. Do not run away from problems, but try to face, or leave it some time, some problems resolved by giving it a chance time, but do not forget or escape from them. Positive man in charge, has generated a sense of self and being, and be an active member of the community in which they live Fight or Wait for another confrontation. Escape (flight) only if you find a severe risk to you or who are under your responsibility.

This is life after all, if it will treat you the way you want it to be, it is not life anymore. You're the one making you're own life and not waiting for something good to happen. Life is made up of challenges and trials in life, we face them all, we only have one choice, that is to face it. Running away in a bad situation shows only how coward we are, no matter how many times we reject a bad situation or problem we can never run away from it, it'll only get worse. For me, whatever happen I will never run away, even I fail, I will stand up and continue.

It is but normal to have challenges in life. Some may only have a few but there are those who are unfortunately showered with many. But no matter what, for me, prayers should be my ultimate weapon against them...

The questions you have posted is the one type of situation that everybody might have faced at least once..i don't say that fight back is only one option..but have to fight not with others those you don't like but with,yourself with your thought which are creating irritations and depress,generally we people will get fit in to a frame when we are bounded by any problem or irritation,so if we try to thing above that frame..we can over come easily..even i have crossed these type of situations so that only i am just suggesting.. just think in this way also.. :-)

I guess there are some instances that we should run away than to fight. We can weigh things. If we think that it's better for us to escape from the stressful situations and better ones await for us, then it's alright to run. On the other hand, if we can still tolerate the situations we are in, it's okay to fight. Other people think that when we run away from problems, we are coward. However, we might just avoiding things to get more complicated. Happy myLotting!

From my point of view, I would say "fight" until there's no one else to fight for. But my other side would say though it seems coward to retreat sometimes, I think we had to do this when we think that we are on the losing side. Better yet, look for help or seek advice to people whom you know would give you the right path to go with the problem.

Hi deodavid! Well, you are right. Life has many challenges. I face a lot almost everyday. Sometimes, I just cannot understand but feel bad. However, I have to decide to keep kicking and fight the battles with God infront of me and at all sides. I always convince myself that I never live alone..There is Someone up there who knows every bitterness, fear and pain within me. I just cry in the secret place to tell everything to God then after awhile, I feel the burdens have been lighten. Another secret in fighting the darkness of life is my hope that everything shall come to pass. All problems will soon be passed. So, just keep trusting and decide to live your life joyfully. Decide it yourself that you will live life to the fullest no matter what..with God's grace and love. Happy mylotting everyday..happy living daily.

hello deodavid, it is normal for us , life is always not the life i want, but i never give up and i never think i cannot get the life i want, all i did is just to get way to realize my dream and live a better life, i think i'm a soldier and i never ran away i want to fight with life and then get what i want. i hope everyone can achieve their dreams , good luck!

Well, life is life. It's full of challenges. It can be sucking sometimes, yes, but it's full of amazing surprises. Challenges and difficulties are intended for us to be a better person. We all have different walks of life. Different pains and challenges. Running away from problems doesn't make you a better person. It's a race that you'll never win.

Run away or fight it off? In a work place if I am not happy and working is not healthy anymore I run away but if one don't have other financial source then ride out the tide. At home we have to settle all issues no need to fight or flight. As a family we have to stay together thru thick of thin.

I myself can really relate to this topic, I've got depressed ,because of academics mostly, the action made should depend on the situation as well. An example of this is my problems I easily fail subjects, but luckily my peers are there to help me out and with words of encouragement I decided to "fight" instead of just giving up and failing when I have the chance to get pass the course. It's like a war, either you back out and just die or you fight and get higher chances of surviving.

Deal with it. If something happens like that, you will laugh it off in your adulthood. You have to let your emotions let out, by telling your family or going to a psychologist or such. Do NOT let your emotions stay bundled up. Also, its been proven that working out makes you feel better and delighted with yourself.

Yeah. My life has been just okay. I haven't got a job yet and constantly looking for one. I lost my job earlier this year and I felt like I shouldn't have lost it because of some distractions. Well, I have to move on and fight for it. I won't take anything for granted now. Now, I am in my house chilling and doing nothing. hehehehe I feel worthless. hehehehe

Hello deodavid, I have always faced all problems head on or wait it out. I cannot see how things can be so horrible that there is no light at the end of the tunnel. You are right that we all face challenges and there are many times where things seem so dark and depressing but we always have an option. When things seem really hard for me and I am down, I look at all the things I do have and know that their are others who may not be as blessed as I am.