How Can You Go On When One Never Gives Way?

hi neil, I think you got one amazona in your house don't tell ate patty Well for me communication is one of important pillar in a relationship maybe sometimes you need to do something so she can listen to you. hope you will settle this issue calmly hugs to zay and ate patty happy mylotting

In that case you'll never win. A man once told me that according to his dad if you love your woman you always let her win in the argument. My grandfather once told me that my grandma couldn't remain angry with him because whenever they fight, he would even help my grandma get mad at his own self. Funny but it works as i've witnessed that.

Yeah my wife is also like that and i can really relate. Maybe we really have to give way in that kind of situation but it is really important to talk to her and tell her what is wrong with her. You may not talk to her in that day but maybe let it pass for a while and prepare for a date with her and tell there whats wrong. Communication is a two way process. Listening and talking. You need to listen before you talk. Good luck and be strong

I think that if you shut your mouth when something really bothers you, eventually there will be an explosion

oh..well somehow she needs to listen to you right? i mean you are her husband. but then i guess different people have different perspective on this one. See, i am also stubborn myself..but from the years my and hubby has been together, i really learned a lot from listening to him and compromising. We also experience problems such as the things you have mentioned, before i really just want things to go my way and even tho mistakes occur and the results were not good, i would always insist i am still right but after sometimes.. i do realize how much i need to listen also, that sometimes i need to put things down, open my mind and see how my husband see it, how he is feeling and how we can reach decision for the two of us. Though it still occur..lol my fault, i really really try my best go listen to him and see things his way and meet him halfway because i do not want him to feel that its always him putting his feelings or pride down.

Oh well my dear brother if that's the person's reason and standing, then there is nothing you can do. But, no, wait. You're the man in the house- so act as one... Let the woman listen when the husband talks- sorry but, she needs to understand that sometimes, she must listen (and be respectable)

You cannot go on this way. I feel your wife is unwilling to communicate with you when there is a problem. Therefore, you will not be able to solver your problems together or even separately because she just refuses to co-operate or even communicate/discuss with you. This is a bad attitude. It shows immaturity and ignorance...harsh words I know but the truth can be harsh. I think you show great courage to stay in a relationship like yours.

Hello my friend ~~~ NEIL™ ~~~ Ji, I think you are enjoying your life in fullest. Keep enjoying. May God bless You and have a great time

Hi Neil maybe she is not used to talk about the problems or avoiding the problems? its nice that you take it calmly. There are people who never gives up they will only accept once realized the consequences of their attitude and the question is when? considering that you are the passive one, more patience please and pray that she will be ready to discuss your issues soon. Couples should discuss and settle small or big issues for them to enjoy being together. Good luck