how to deal when your lover tell that you need to end your relationhsip?

Of course, it might be to painful in my part for I invest so much emotions in loving and caring for him.I love him very much and in just a snap of finger he will just say that our relationship is over?It's too painful. But in the process of moving on, little by little maybe I would realize the significance of his decision.

Thankfully that's never happen to me yet, but well for sure its very painful and of course if you had a real relationship on your love ones. I might kill myself but no I'm kidding probably I will cry and be alone for a while and if that doesn't work its easy to move on if you thinks it really over.

It would hurt like hell. I've been there and I just couldn't seem to accept it. I tried to reason out but he didn't want to listen because he has made up his mind. I wouldn't have tried to reason out if he didn't love me still, but I knew in his heart that he did but he's giving up because of some personal reasons that both of us couldn't do anything about it. Of course I cried and still cried after a few months after that every time i remembered how good he was as a lover and how much i've missed him. I'm glad though that in time, he just knew that we couldn't stop what we have and thus we got back together.

when this situation happened,i will smile to him and say goodbye,no matter how sad i was,i don't want let him know,this is my dignity.

First, I will ask him why. He can't just possibly want to end our relationship for nothing. I need to know why, he owes me that much. I will definitely be sad and shed tears, because the end of something that used to be so beautiful is always sad. But after hearing his reasons, I can pretty much get what kind of person I am in a relationship with. Are his reasons valid? Outrageous? Silly? If ever he really wants to end it for some reason, I will need closure. I don't know how long it will take for me to move on, but definitely, I would want us to separate on good terms.

If it happened to me.I want to know the reason first.And I'll cry,to say goodbye.Don't know I really do when it happen.But I just hope we can be forever and not to me.

to tell you honestly,i don't know what i'm going to do or am i going to feel if ever my love one will end up our relationship.maybe i'll cry especially if you really love him/her so much.it's hard to accept the fact that you'll wake up one morning and you'll realize that your all alone without him/her beside you.i don't know how am i going to handle that situation.i guess it will took me years to move on..