how to handle cheaters!!!!

If my husband cheated? I would throw all his things outside our house, then shout "cheater, go away and never come back" Then,I would slap his face, punch and kick him. Too violent? well, I don't know. That's what I think I would do. Being overwhelmed by the situation. Anyway, I would not easily forget it. Maybe through time. If it does? LOL. I do not have a husband yet, but I wish mine would not cheat.

I think as a man i will ignore her and let her realize that what she did was wrong. It is not appropriate to hurt or say something bad about our wife and i will still prioritize that even in a difficult situation. There is no more difficult than realization and regretting that what you have done is not good and is against the law of God. I will forgive her but i will think if she deserves to be forgiven. She has to make an effort to prove a lot tome, that she will never do that again and that she changed as a person. I will give her time to find her self and fix her self. Because i know when she comes back i am still ready to forgive her. As long as she can meet my standards again LOL

Could I forgive a man that cheats on me? Absolutely not. There is no greater disrespect to a partner... to the relationship... to the family... than to cheat. Cheating is a complete deal-breaker for me. It doesn't matter if there are children or if the relationship is long-standing, etc. It ends the moment cheating happens. It's not something that I would either forgive or forget.

To be honest, I have to say that I DO NOT KNOW what to do and would do if my husband cheated on me. So for me, I would be doing all that I can to avoid this from happening by doing what I need to do to the best of my ability and knowledge. Rather than, waiting or asking for it to happen, I just make sure that I do my part as a wife and that he do his part as a husband. I ensure that all the channels of communication are open and possible at all times including the children. I think this is very important because the minute all of us were to stop talking our hearts then it will be the beginning of deterioration of a good relationship and marriage. In the house, nothing is left to pile up or sweep under the carpet. It is also important for everyone to practice give and take and not take one another for granted. Everyone in the family is special and we just need to learn to bring out the unique good side in each one of us into the family. Without this, the house would turn out to be war zone than a comfort haven.

I`m not a person to use the word sin, or think that a person did or din`t do what`s wrong in the eyes of God. We are not capable to know what God thinks. But we are responsible of ourselves, we owe respect to everyone and specially to our partner. So, if my husband had cheated on me, it would be an "out!" without coming back. I can forgive him (as a person), but I would not forget nor trust him to belong to my life ever again. The third part is no excuse.