Unpleasant to ear.
By lynpreety
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
August 11, 2012 10:16pm CST
Do you encounter people that when they open their mouth to start a conversation but they always start with a bad words, expression or a curse?
My friend hubby is like that, whenever he started to talk he always start with a bad words first before continuing to his topic. We went to the grocery store yesterday with her hubby and there lots of people in the grocery store and it looks like people are having panic buying because of the recent calamity we have.
I stay away from them because people almost thought that her husband was fighting with her while talking. I also have some relatives of my ex back when I was in the big city who also like that. It is just unpleasant to my ear.
I stay away from them because people almost thought that her husband was fighting with her while talking. I also have some relatives of my ex back when I was in the big city who also like that. It is just unpleasant to my ear.3 people like this
14 responses
@god_is_good (683)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
That is true to many whose mouth is too dirty. However, for them it is just normal but for people like us, it's not a normal thing to do, to curse and say bad or foul language whenever we talk. I believe that it is a reflection of the kind of training they have, which form the habit of saying bad words. Also, it is a reflection of the inside of a person. I don't like to be with people who are cursing and saying those negative words most of the time. I am glad you made a distance with them.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
Hi good, how are you?
I used to hear them when I'm still in the city and I have nothing to do but just to close my ears to them. But being away to them for almost 5 years now I get irritated when I heard it again here in my town who I seldom heard those bad words.
I used to hear them when I'm still in the city and I have nothing to do but just to close my ears to them. But being away to them for almost 5 years now I get irritated when I heard it again here in my town who I seldom heard those bad words.@god_is_good (683)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
By God's grace, I and my family are well. I pray that you are safe and in good health as the typhoon passes by.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
16 Aug 12
So far I'm already fine now and I'm already done with the cleaning task cause by a flood that gets inside my house.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
14 Aug 12
I will admit that I am a person that does use some profanity when I am talking, but I honestly cannot think of very many times that I will start a discussion with something like that, unless I am telling some kind of a dirty joke.
There are times that I will start something by using a profanity, but this is typically something that I will only do when I am very mad about something. I have been known to go off on people when I don't believe that I am being treated right.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
It is normal if we are joking or angry but it is already unpleasant to hear when saying it like a normal words to them.
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
13 Aug 12
Yes unfortunately I know of too many people like this, sometimes I find it embarrassing to talk with them as other people are watching and listening. Some people are also very negative when they talk, they might not use bad language but they talk negatively constantly which also gets on my nerves.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
Just have a distant with them so that it will not irritates you.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
My friends usually speaks bad words too and i just get used to it. Like it is only normal for me to hear those words and expressions. Maybe you just hate it really in a way that it affects your mood. I mean i am not telling that bad words are healthy, its just that there are different people and we need to understand if that is who they are. Let us not choose people because they words may be harsh but their heart and who they are are not really that bad. Although sometimes what we speak defines who we are. It is nice that you remain true to yourself though and you just remain distance to them
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
I know I can't control them but I can control my self that's why I just have to stay away for not to cause trouble with someone.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
I can see lots of adult people now don't care about the children anymore.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
13 Aug 12
me to. im just sick of these people that do that. it also bugs me when i hear a movie is really good and go to watch it and cant enjoy it because of all the swearing, cuss words going on in it. why do so many people feel this is a way to go/talk these days
my daughters bf can hardly talk for saying the F word all the time. but he never says it in the company of my oldest son any more so that proves he knows better.
i did a discussion on it about a year ago and very few people here agreed it was wrong. most know its not only embarrassing but wrong! to listen to and be around such a crass neanderthal!! lol1 person likes this
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
It is not safe to be around them specially children, it's really annoying.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
These types of people are just making headlines with their own crooked thinking.They know they are hurting almost all the people who hears their talking,yet they still continue to talk bad words.These people are born with the zodiac sign of Capricorn with the sarcastic attitudes and prudent thinking.They tend to have many enemies.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
Oppss I think zodiac sign have noting to do with this. I'm a capricorn and it's not in my type to talk like that. Capricorn is a very jealous person and hardworking man. And I don't agree with you on that.
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Aug 12
My ex husband used to come home from the construction site and be talkin' like a trucker. He would apologize for his bad words and expressions and it took him awhile to get used to tuning it out when he came home. Unpleasant to the ear to be sure. What do they think is so cool about sounding so idiotic?!
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
Maybe they are not aware that they getting other's attention while saying those words.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
12 Aug 12
These bad habits, which should be changed.
How he talked with his parents?
How does he talk to his boss?
What if he led an important meeting which was attended by key people?
I would like to hear if he was successful.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
I know they will not be a successful if they will not change.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
hi lyn,
I do say bad words but not to the point that all the words that coming from my mouth are bad words it's some kind of expression to me but I don't say it out loud.
happy mylotting
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
I know you Bhaby your not like that..... not only when your excited 
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
12 Aug 12
I also encounter such kind of people and I just ignore them because they never thought that what they are saying might not be very good to hear. If it happened to be my relative or a friend, I would try to call their attention about it.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
12 Aug 12
Yep, I have encountered some people with potty mouths. I know I also cuss whenever I get too angry and pissed, but I am not used to people whose sentences are preceded and ended with cuss words. These people's talk affects me like a nail scraping the chalkboard. It just makes me so uncomfortable and I'm the one who actually feels embarrassed for them.
As much as possible, I just try to have minimum contact with them, or just have conversation with them over the phone, and not in anywhere public, not even in my house where my kid siblings can hear them.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
I just wish children at the very young age will not imitate them.
