Do you dare to get married when you don't have much money?

I think it depends on the person what is his upbringing to pursue his married life with limited financial capabilities.I can call them unsung heroes of their lives because they still continue to live as husband and wife and not even hardships could separate their love,and it even made them stronger and determined to increase their family.

I married my husband, when we were in college, and my husband has not worked. Our life is hard, we depend on saving money, and the inheritance money. Now, we are trying to earn a living. We work together, we did not live as the rich, but at least, my child can attend school, and could eat. Our lives are not happy, but not because we were poor, but because there are other problems.

No! Most people in my family are smart enough to put off marriage if that situation arises, and it has for many of us. My cousin and her fiance are in engaged to be married next year, but they might put it off because they both lost their jobs this year, and they won't have enough money to pay for their wedding. They want to make sure that they have enough money before they do anything. I'm not saying that you should be rich or super rich to get married, but do have enough money to support yourself and extra left over for other stuff that may come up.

I think if your in love money would no be a issue in getting married , maybe you will not be able to get a big wedding but you can still have a small intimate one . I am engaged and I go to school and we paying rent but we still going to get married. We will not have kids until we are more financially stable and out of university . If a persona is going to with for riches that may never come but love is right their a very rare thing in today world better than silver and gold . I agree with you I would not wait on that person if they are going to wait to be rich to marry me .

Well....... yes and no. If you simply mean that you are not wealthy, then yes that's not a reason. Get married. Just because you don't have money all over the place, or a super nice place to live, or some other meaningless measure of wealth, is not a reason to wait on getting married. In fact, in many cases, a good man, and a good woman, together will because better people through marriage. A good man, will become a better man from getting married. A good woman, will end up being a better woman from getting married. It depends on the individuals ALLOWING the marriage to make them better people. However, the other side of this is, being wise and having a plan. If you have no job, no skills, no direction, and no plan.... then that's not a good time to get married. If you have no income at all, and you get married, you are just going to have two people starving. So you need to at least have a plan. Have a job, with some income. Doesn't have to be millions, but enough that you can get a small rental, and some food, and buy clothes. The basic things of life. You don't need super expensive designer bras and flashy big screen TVs... but you know the basics, food, shelter, electricity, so on. Once you know you and your spouse can survive with the basics, by all means get married, start your life together. Why wait?

For me, The money is not the factor to get married. As long as you believe and work hard, you shall have bread and you shall have milk, and everything sall turn out to be all right! Monry does not mean happiness!

I'll be honest here, I have very expensive taste and I have dreams of having an expensive wedding which is why we have not gotten married yet. I've been with my partner for 8 years and we live just like a married couple, it just isn't offically on paper yet. I see him in the same light that I would see a husband, we just haven't taken the step yet because we have certain wants for the wedding day.

Why not? I married when I was a salesman. Only a family party. A week after getting married, we had to move to another island, because the task of the company. Spending to swell. Nothing is known. Different languages??. We really feel like a new born in the world. But we both deal with a smile. Marriage is the courage to live together.

Hi there.. On coming 24 september, i am getting married. Yes, i have a fear, not about the money as i am established now... but the fear is will i be able to take all those responsibilities? will i be able to make her happy? will she be satisfied with me? and many more questions is still running in my mind. Oh, yes. This is an arranged marriage. Have a nice time.

When I got married my husband and I both studying and working at the same time, were both have savings but I think those are not enough to buy our own house and car during that time, but the most important is were together and were not asking any help from our parents. Through hard working and wise money spending little by little we save enough to afford to buy a new house and some mojor appliances. Now my husband and I both have stable job and happy together.

I think there are many other things more important than moeny in our lives,and if i don't have much money,i will get married with my lover of course,for me,love is the most important factor to decide whether to marry or not.However, if i have no moeny,or i have to borrow money to marry,i will hesitate.I think we have to own a certain number of moeny before marry.

Hi friend, your points are good, but practically we need some money before making relationship, otherwise we will face a lot of problems in our life, as you mentioned your parents had a hard time after marriage due to their poverty, we don't need a long time to make money, if we have confidence and have the ability to work hard, surely we will make a good income within a month based on our interest and get married to settle in life without issues

for me, money is not really the problem when to get married. what if that guy really is not meant to get rich? then he'll not get married as well? if you really love each other, a simple wedding will be enough for you two. and marriage is not only for richer and for richer but for richer and poorer so that whatever your financial status, together you can endure it.

Well for me, I would not dare to marry someone who has the capabilities or stability in life. It is okay if he is not that rich, I just want him to have a stable job and of course with an earning that csn make his family alive. I do often think about my future children. I don't want them to suffer just because I married without a stable job or money to support them. I also don't want them to look pathetic into other people, I want to give them a home, a clean home, proper living and proper education.

Well,I got married without a house. We just hired an apartment to get married. That's 12 years ago. My husband and I lived and live happily. I'm glad to say that now we hacve our own apartment with our own effort . And we have a beautiful daughter. We are a happy family. Money can't buy happiness. I always believe that.

Hi Ryanong! Marriage is the second half of a human's life! Marriage life needs many parameter to be successful. For example let me compare marriage with Car. Car is a complex machine with thousands of simple tools. Likewise marriage is also a complex relationship with thousands of simple parameters like Love, affection, care, response, little fights for understanding, misunderstanding leading to further understanding etc,. Of course money will play one of the major role for a successful marriage life. But it does not mean that money is marriage! From my point of view its better to have enough money in hand and then get married. So that there will not be any misunderstanding for further understanding too! But little little fights are always needed for a cheerful relationship!