i will forget u now and that is final..
By asliah
@asliah (11137)
Philippines
August 12, 2012 3:53am CST
good day to all of you guys,when you are really hurt by your lover and feel too much pain not only in your heart even your mind because of thinking on,what he/she did to you?will you give up to him/her?why?how fast you create a decision especially in love life?,finally i decided to myself that i need to forget him because he makes me hurt and too much pain,so to avoid this pain i need to give up you though i know i will hurt but its only in the first and i know i can practice that you will never exist to my life.
8 responses
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
Yes, even though its too painful with my part that I need to give up on him, I think that is the better solution for me to lessen my burden with my lover or partner. If it is for the sake of our peace then so be it. It is not healthy anyway to be in relationship but then you are not in good terms and always quarreling.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Aug 12
Certainly, you did the right thing. Why do you have to keep on holding on to that someone who is hurting you and giving you such pain. If he loves you then he wouldn't hurt you. It is right to let him go and forget, though it's not easy but you'll have to move on and get moving. You deserve someone better who could take care and love you in return. All the best!
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
12 Aug 12
Perhaps you did the right decision. Because we live for peace of mind and pleasure in life. Wherever we get the same and we can move on it and if somewhere we find that it is matching, just give up and that the life.
We have a lots of things around but can't keep possession of everything, out of which we have to make certain compromise to have a better feeling. When it comes to the love life, we all are so particular and become more reserve towards few things. This is one area we would like to find extreme pleasure and life long desires. However, if we cannot coop with a person who won't care of such things may not be desirable in our life and we still need to keep a hope that we will get a still better on in the due course of time.
Be happy and I can really understand your situation, but we need to survive and look for a better life, where we may have to close our eyes purportedly.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
12 Aug 12
All the time when I was hurt by someone, I was keeping myself busy with things, mostly physical work, to be able to stop thinking about it.
First time I discovered it works is when I started job in a store for food. I was always working, all the time doing something small like checking the storage for things which are not in the shop, cleaning the floor, decorating, speaking with clients.
So long time passed that I really don't remember how I have been hurt, by which act exactly, but all I know is that keeping yourself busy with your own things will low the pain and make it disappear.
Stay away the bad experience and move on is my suggestion.
@pjha1975 (214)
• India
12 Aug 12
If your partner hurts you so much & gives more pain than love, why would you want to stay with him? Many years down the line, you would only remember the hurt, the pain & not even a single .. Why even go through with it?
My recommendation, if you've already made the decision to leave him then at no cost should you change your decision, right? You need to move on with your life & live for yourself now..
Take care..
@sherrybelle (707)
• United States
12 Aug 12
It's probably good that you're making this decision. Take time to heal yourself emotionally and take good care of yourself.
Someday you will meet someone who is worthy of receiving your love. Be patient, and love yourself, for now.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
12 Aug 12
When there is more pain than joy in a relationship, communication might be helpful. Maybe ask the person why they continue to behave in a hurtful manner towards you. If this doesn't work and you feel the pain of just being with this person is too great then yes, it may be time to move on with your life. There are some people that, if given the chance, will continue to hurt another. That's just the way they are. And if you keep putting up with it, it might never stop. You say you have decided to forget him. That may be for the best. If you stay with him you might be hurt for a long time. If you leave you will only be hurt for a little while. The youthful part of our lives is too short to be spent in unhappiness. You should be smiling and enjoying life. Take yourself, in life, to places where you will be happy, loved, respected and cared for. You can overcome this. It's just a small setback in the whole larger scheme of things. Enjoy life! I hope you start feeling better quickly. Keep yourself busy and happy. Work hard at that and you'll do alright. Have a great day! :-)