Happy
By Marklisa
@Marklisa (2)
India
August 12, 2012 6:42am CST
Single displays that it may be a single lady, single man, single parent etc., after certain age, being single is a terrible thought where many will went into depression and some enjoy being single too. Being single mother... she has to face lots of critism in this society and has to face lots of problems also. Being a single lady is also give others to speak something which is not appreciable as well as after sometime a single lady needs security for herself to lookafter. Being a single, there are some hurdles as well as profits too. But i prefer to be double instead of single.
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13 responses
@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
13 Aug 12
I loved being married for about 40 years. We shared many of our thoughts and some of our time. I became a widow and got a man friend for some time. I had lots of fun, but I was glad he did not live in my country. We had vacations together, but I had my own space. He passed away a couple of years ago and I live alone in my house. If someone came to my life, I would not share my house with him. I am social though and have guests for diner at least once a week. I guess that life is something you learn how to manage depending on what happens in the present.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
13 Aug 12
well some people like it being single. They can do all that that they can't do being double. I think not all singles are unhappy. Some really enjoy their life. Being double is good but some people regret being double because of the problems they face. I think we cannot conclude from One person being unhappy being single. thanks for sharing. good day to you. 
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
13 Aug 12
hi radhika,
congratulations that you have received ten responses to this discussion, yes now you have said about your present position to the members, i yes i too agree with you, if it is male the situation is some what different and can make another marriage,but ladies cannot do that thing that much easily, they have to hear lot of criticism about that,any how good discussion you have posts,have a nice day
@mkmuhammadayaz (69)
• Pakistan
13 Aug 12
yes i agree with you. nobody live allon for a long time. husband and wife should live together and don't fight each other. if you live lonely maybe you get some bani-fits but alone life is so borrowing and dull.alone man is a home of disease because he don't care of his health .
@brooke1822 (63)
•
13 Aug 12
It's been a long time since I've been single however I think about it very often. All the things I could accomplish if I were only single. Not having to worry about someone else, how they feel or having to include them in decesions. However it does have great pros about having someone with you along by your side thru out life. Allthough I think about being single I don't think I could adjust to it just being me.
@tepz08 (9)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
It's sad that society look at single women like they have some sort of disease - that there's something wrong with you that you are alone (it doesn't seem a big deal with men). Being single is a choice. Some prefer to be single because they haven't found the partner they are looking for.
But it doesn't mean these single women feel differently about wanting to have a family. Who wouldn't want someone to love and care for, no?
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
12 Aug 12
Most people would prefer to be a part of a couple, but things don't always work out that way. Happiness comes from having the right attitude and is not contingent on who is or is not a part of your life. If a person can not be happy alone they will not be happy just because they are a "double."
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
hi Marklisa,
Being single is a choice
It also has an advantage and disadvantages too.
happy mylotting
@simplealvi (148)
• Pakistan
12 Aug 12
The word single it self shows a lonleness i think. Single means nothing and on the other hand couple or double always good. Not only women, single men also get depress, so i'll prefer a couple. (by the way are you single :d )
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
12 Aug 12
I have seen both sides of the coin. for most of my life I preferred to stay single, I had no desire to live with another person. Then, quite naturally, it all changed for me. I am currently looking for someone to spend my life with. I don't know how it will turn out, but I am not happy being alone now. I was happy all of my life to be single. But now? Nope. I want to be in a relationship of my choosing, not anyone else's, my choosing. So, there I stand. Who knows what I will find? But love is the only option for me. But definitely not content with single now.
@sbrn11 (415)
• India
12 Aug 12
everyone has their own opinion about being single or being with someone. those who are in relation and their relation does not work.. they prefer being single.
and those who are single, want someone's company.
as for me.. i have the same opinion as u, i want to be with someone rather then to be alone.
@catherine086 (139)
• China
12 Aug 12
I think the reason you prefer to be double than single is up to different age period. Like me, a 22 year old girl, I very enjoy my life to be a single. I can be myself most of the time and avoid some trouble caused by your loving parterner. But for some people, especially the single mother or father,some senior citizens, i think there's a need to find a life parterner again. In this way, they can develop a family, help each other and cope with the problems together. That's good.
