That Is Just How He Is...

My husband was a very generous man and you sohould be very happy to be blessed by having such a husband. But don´t be so harsh on the old couple. They might have been afraid of the future and not knowing what to do when your husband tried to lend them a hand the other time. Sometimes people feel that they have nothing left, feel very insecure and the only thing they have left is their pride. Let us hope that you never have to tell a neighbor that you don´t have food. For people who are not beggars, it´s very difficult to ask for help.

Each of my husbands have been that way. They are truly jewels in the rough places of life. I am sure he knows how you appreciate him, too.

I hope she says thank you this time. I don't care how old anyone is, there is no reason for rudeness.

Wow, he truly does have a heart of gold. NOt many people would be like him and help someone who was so rude before when they tried helping. Even I don't think I could do that. I'm really bad about holding grudges and I'll stay upset about something for a while. I know it's not really a good way to be, but I can't help but let things get to me. I think your husband is an example we all should follow. Sounds like you found a good one!!!

Very kind and a man with a golden heart. I hope others will do the same as your husband did. It is very rare to find people with golden hearts. Actually we share the same attitude. I help people without conditions even though they hurt me in return. My grandma tole me to treat everyone with LOVE, even those who are rude to you, not because they are not nice but because YOU are nice.

Hey Loving: I am happy that you are proud of your husband. He is doing what he knows to be right, regardless of how the other person responds. Sometimes people (elderly especially) have issues that cause them to have really bad mood swings (meds can do that). But we should always do what we know to be right. Since she is elderly and not just some lazy bum who won't work for a living, I think he is doing a good thing and he will be blessed for those actions. When we give out of a loving, pure heart, not expecting a payback or reward, I believe God sees that as a righteous thing. I'm not preaching to you, I just have a strong belief that we all should be caring for others. I do the same sort of thing - sometimes my husband asks me why when the recipient sometimes is not always grateful! But, I know that I have extra to share and I want to make someone else life a bit easier, so I give. HOWEVER, I am not so willing to help someone who is capable of doing more for themselves. If they are just lazy that is a different story. Continue to be proud of your husband, you have a real gem!

Your husband truly is amazing, I know lots of good people, but I don't think I know anyone would would continue to help someone who slammed the door in their face, but then again you never know.

good for your hubby! it is nice to know that there are still good people in the world because all we hear about is the bad. as for me, yes, i believe that we should always do whatever we can for others no matter what.

My husband has three kids from a previous relationship and he has been paying for their insurance so that they can go to work recently he was paying for his son a car payment he gets mad at them and says he is not going to help them again but he does it anyways recently he had to go take them to the store since we let both vehicles go back tp the lothe has gone over there and took their trash to the dumpsters and even though at the time he did not like my daughters boyfriend he let them stay with us and him to work when he needed to go he had to bite his tounge at times to keep from saying things I am proud of him.

You are married to a wonderful man....tell him that there are so many who think so highly of him....I try to help when I can but if someone slammed a door in my face I probably would just write them off. He has a bigger heart then I do!

Hi LovingMyBabies Goodness and Love prevail and will win any one - so what if the winning is slow with some people who are staunch believers of hate and malice... Thanks for this wonderful discussion - I would keep returning back when the goodness in me is shaken and I need something to re-charge me. I try to be like you hubby most of the times, but yes, I would admit, I falter sometimes for a while... but then I forget whatever bad was done to me and I am back to the same me.

your husband seems to be really sweet^^ most part of people wouldnt help that woman again. i mean she was really rude. but sadly i am like your hubby too. if people are bad to me and ask me for help i help. its not that im ashamed to be like this. but sometimes i wish i wasnt so good to others even more those that are bad. but its just the way we are^^ we have to help anyway. you must be proud that he is a good guy. take good care of him. he deserves it^^

Yep I know someone like your husband. ME! My husband would sometimes ask me not to help those people who were very rude to me. But I just can't help it. I cannot refuse someone who needs help. You are very lucky to have a husband who's very kind. He really has a good heart.

your husband has a veryy big heart, i kno someone like that as well, other day my father was walking home from the store and seen a old old women mowing her lawn n offered to do it for her no charge just the peace that his heart will feel knowing she didnt break her back doing such a job, she was so thankful and just yesterday he picked his fruits and gave them to the neighbors, my son seen him do that and wanted to do the same, it brang tears of joy to my eyes hearing "i wana give em to the neighbors to mommy", i guess what they say is true "a smile or helping hand goes along way" that can really just pass on to other i guess "be the change you wish to see in the world" i lovee that quote and i cant wait for my children to become fine young men with big hearts just like your husband and my father!

I think that he sounds just great. I have a husband like that as well. He would do as much as he can for anyone and doesnt expect anything in return. He lets people borrow money all the time at work and that is something that I wish he would not do since we need the money that we have. And he will go extra miles to take people places and not ask for gas money in return. But he does it anyways and is just fine with helping people and loaning to people.

My ex has a heart to everybody he is generous specially in helping people even sometimes the person has an attitude. I get mad at him sometimes that's what I thought people around us is abusing him for being so kind even sometimes at the end of his helping hand he will blame them for no reason. My ex will just told me it's fine as long I can help I will help.

Hello my friend LovingMyBabies Ji, Well, You are lucky to husband like him. he is a kind hearted person, which will fetch both of you as he is helping knowing very well her attitude. Her attitude will change. But God will help you both certainely. May God bless You and have a great time

Your husband's great! I could not help people who are mad at me or insult me??. One more salute to your husband. I have much to learn from him.

Yes, I do that with my own family who are often rude to me here. She is lucky to have him there for her when she needs groceries and such. he does have a heart of gold. God bless him.

The Bible says to requite evil with good.your husband has a heart of gold.God bless you!