Help me this kind of relationship.........PLZ

Even if you say you love her and she needs you,your girlfriends decision was the right one because if you are really both are meant for each other your love can wait for the right time.Finish first your studies so that she could also pursue her dream to become professional.Just tell her to wait for your love and I think she would be waiting for your return without the fear your parent would not approved your relationship.You are both professionals then,and I am confident your parents will not disapproved your marriage.I wish you take my opinion and wisely decide your faith.

i thnk in are in love with her truely.... then, no neeed to worry, she cant go away from...u try to explian her continuously...one fine she will be back... becouse being a girl, i know that... no girl can stay away from the boy who truly loves her... all the best..:)

Are your parents that open-minded? If yes, you can tell them your problem. If they would say that you need to get her back and they're not against you and her having a relationship, then go. You have to tell your mom first, ask advice from her. I hope you will solve your problem soon. You can win her back for sure because you said she loves you. Happy myLotting.

I say just get her back. If your family can't accept her and her family that is their problem not yours. It's good to see you aren't basing a relationship purely on their social standing in a community/business or even money way. To me I wouldn't care if their family weren't 'fortunate' or well off. If I truly loved her I'd keep pushing to get her back while continuing my studies. But I am the kind of guy I wouldn't be able to focus on studies with this causing a headache wondering what to do. So I say go for it get the girl back and forget what you or her family thinks. If its meant to be with you two then they will come to accept it and if not then its their problem for being so ignorant to people and their feelings. Goodluck

Do not give up and 'pester' her continuously, but not to the point of irritating her. If she truly loves you too and still cares for you, there may be a chance to make her chance her mind. But if it does not work as of yet i would suggest you two become friends for the time being and perhaps when you two get older, her thoughts would not be the same anymore and she would not mind the reason why she gave you up in the first place. This is only if she really loves you deeply and that time does not dilute your love for each other. This is only an assumption. If the reason why she broke up with you is not what she told you, but instead because she does not love you anymore, than no matter what you do it will be fruitless. On the contrary if the love between two of you is genuine then i believe over time both of you will understand it and get together. Best of luck to you

its not easy i know that...But try to focus your mind first and balance the situation,remember you are studying,, be focus of that.. and about your lovelife.. give her space to think, give her time to do whatever she wants..if that girl would be yours, she will be yours. no matter what happen no matter where she go, she will love you.

She is afraid of your father's reaction? Well I think you should talk to your dad about her. He may think this is a good match! If you talk to your dad, then maybe he can talk to her dad and her dad can talk to her. But... do not be surprised if both families want you to finish your studies Before you marry. Good Luck. I hope everything works out.

It would be better if you concentrate on your studies and career. Perhaphs what you are considering 'love' is infatuation.

Well, show to the girl that you are willing to fight for her eventhough the world is against on both of you. If sees that you are fighting and doing everything you can to save your relationship then I am 100% that she will go back to you. And also, show to her that you are capable of standing on your own because the girl might be afraid that your are so dependent to your family that someday if you are going to have a family on your own, you will still depend on your family and the girl might receive an unkind treatment from your family. You see it is all about being treated unkindly that your girlfriend now decided to end your relationship. She is afraid that your family might look down on her. If you are just going to talk and talk to her nothing will happened. You have to move dude, you have to do something, don't you just talk and talk making her understand which is a very useless idea. "THE ONLY WAY TO CHANGE A WOMAN'S MIND IS FOR HER TO SEE THAT YOU ARE FIGHTING FOR HER" she need to see something from you, she doesn't want to hear anything from you so stand up, go to her, visit her always, talk to her always, ask her to be your friend first and don't rush, and most importantly make her see that your are capable of fighting for her even if you lose all your wealth. This is another issue about choosing between love, money, and family. If you choose the girl then you have to face the consequences in life.

Hello my friend Akibur Ji, As an old Lady of 67 yrs old, you may always des;like my views. But , what I could get from you taht you felt in love at the age of 14-15 yrs. I think probably, you might not know the meaning of love. Love does not want anything in return, you can love her throout your life without expecting anything in return. But You willl deny this fact. Because you want to stay with her and look after, why any concrete reasons that others have failed to look after her, and they seek your help. There is something else taht you want to marry her, make both of your lives a big hurdle. IIf you really love her, are you bold enough to go straight to parents of Girl through your parents, in case they do not agree for your relation then both of you sacrifice your realtion fo rtime being without looking at any other. Time may tell. But be frank in your dealing. Real love does not want anything in return. May God bless You and have a great time

I think that it is really sad that your girlfriend decided to end your relationship because of the fact that she was ashamed of her family's financial standing. You see, I've been a person that has had a decent standing in my life and there have been other times in my life that we've been through struggles. However, throughout everything, I honestly have come to know that love is able to overcome everything. Money should never be the reason that we end a relationship with a person that we really love. I wish that I could be of more help to you.

I think the best thing you should do is to give it time. You said that you are still communicating with her but of course it's different because you are not in a relationship anymore. Just let her know you really love her and that you are willing to wait till she accepts the fact that nothing would ever stop you from loving her. I'm sure in time that she won't be able to control herself either if she still loves you. So please don't push it and just give her time. Hope this helps.

hi Akibur, Maybe your girl is scared of what will happen when your family finds out about your relationship you can't blame her to feel this way when it comes to status specially financially there are lo of thoughts but,you are still young there is still long run to go finish your studies pursue your dreams and then let's see if you are really meant to be if you are then ask her again. It seems you cant convince her now. I believe when it comes to love there is no what you have and how old you are wishing you a luck welcome to mylot

if you really love her, continue to show her that it is not a hindrance to your relationship. show her that you love her so much. tell her that it is not really a big deal if they have this problem. tell her that your parents will understand their situation. it is a shallow reason for you to end your relationship. and patience, have patience in doing this... soon she will understand. goodluck to you.

Just focus on your studies my friend,love can wait. According to the christian bible: [i]1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.[/i] If you are truly mean for each other, then your parents can understand it. Focus on your study, but continue your communication. Let friendship blooms your relationship.. :)

You are too young to know what love is all about in modern life. I mean some 100 odd years ago, I would say yes but now no. We keep growing at your age. While we are growing we learn new thngs and forget the old things or previous things that we liked no longer remain as important to us. This is the reason the actors who were our favorites change, the singers we liked change, the clothes we dressed in change, the hair styles we wear change, we even change our cars and homes. So our tastes change with time. The speed of these changes decreases with age. At your age, you have had first rush of love. Even if you marry her, right at this moment, it is not guaranteed that you will not fall head over heels in love with another person in the next few years. So may be both of you do need a break and may be you two can keep in touch with each other with those texts and SMSs. Only time will prove whether your love was sincere or not. As you say, she does not have much time at her disposal. Perhaps, you can approach the girl's parents and disclose that as of now you two love each other but want to marry only after completing a professional course. And make a similar statement to your parents. The girl would feel your intentions are honorable.

Hi friend, welcome to mylot. Sad to hear about your love story, so status is the great problem for your love, your lover is right, you must concentrate in your studies and get a good job, after getting a stable job try your best to marry your lover. It is not the age for love, so concentrate in studies to make a bright future

I guess you have tell her that nothing bad will happen when even your parents come to know it. Tell her that you will handle it well. Keep talking to her even if she does not talk. yeah go to extent that she might not expect it. All the best. hope you get your love back.

Same with you ,boy,i loved a girl deep in my heart and still love her,but we can't even walk together as a couple of good friend like others,because she said it's makes her uncomfortable when stay with me,she can't treat me like some other nom people.On the other side,she know inside i am the right man in her life,but she can't accept a relationship between us.What can i do?And what shall i do with her?

love accepts good or bad-maybe the two of you should have an agreement that after x amount of years(after you have both studied) to rekindle your love. Material things are not everything but it seems that your lady friend thinks she is not unworthy of your love because her family is less fortunate....perhaps she needs to experience life, the world, tertiay education-know that she can make her one money so that she can feel that she is on the same standing as you and your family. good luck and perserve-great love conquers all