criticize a lot

People are like that and I think we all have done that at some point . The bad things is a person who is not criticizing because they care and giving you constructive criticism but just trying to bring you down . I hate when people try to tear another down so they can look good .

I know what you mean, I live with this almost daily too. Someone always has to point out something that is wrong and can't keep their mouth shut. It zaps your energy and shuts down your soul. They need to learn some tact. We should be put on the earth to help people and not harm them, that means verbally as well.

A lot of people are like this, I try to stay away from them. I observe people everyday who are nice to someone in person and they talk about them when they walk away, shows what kind of friend they are and I want nothing to do with them.

Well there are two ways to choose from when criticizing people. The constructive (positive) criticism and the destructive (negative) criticism. I'm sure that one you hated is the negative one. but sometimes we need to receive these criticism for us to judge ourselves and maybe change if ever there are negative traits that other people thinks of us. But be sure that you only give them if people are really asking for it. Negative criticism may hurt other people if simply intended to insult someone. but if given in the appropriate manner, it will give the other people a chance to correct himself.

Hi angel, It depends on whether you're criticising because you did not like that person or his behavior or you are doing it to help him improve. So the intent of your criticism is important. Having said that I'm not too keen on criticising people as I believe there is a better way by being tactful. Some people are so sensitive that they'll be offended at the slightest hint of criticism. Of course the diplomatic approach is harder to do as you'll require practice and experience otherwise it'll backfire. Have a nice day.

[em]happy[/em better dont crticizing people live your life and dont judge their lives ok this a great oportunity to follow our life without peoplo

Hello my friend angelkarah050182 Ji, Well, I think criticising some one is hilighting weak points and till then people will think that they are correct. But it should be done with positive sense. There is one gentleman by name LBJ (Lord Beydon Jhonson} a graet critic in English literature. Just log on to Boswell and you will find. E.g. on sliping by a Lady on public main road, everyone laughed but he commented that there wa snothing wrong other than that her vertical posture was changed to horizontal. So make criticism as healthy one. May God bless You and have a great time

Well, we can't avoid being criticize. Even do we can good or bad they still criticize us. This is the reason there is a saying that "no body" is perfect. Better to this people to educate and let they know that criticizing good is a kind of bad attitude. Better to praise the good thing that other people to achieved not criticize them,right?

That is human nature- we criticize. Sometimes we criticize others unintentionally. But, criticizing other as a habit is not good anymore. We should always keep in mind that other people no matter how bad or ugly they are- there is always good in them. Sometimes people who criticize a lot are bitter in life.

I remember that during those interviews that I have attended before, applicants are usually being asked if they can deal/accept criticisms. And they all answered YES. If I will be in the same situation, I might give the same answer. For me, it is one of the traits or qualities that can make people succeed in life. I have seen some people who always criticize other people, it has become a normal thing for them. They do not care if they would hurt the other person. I think that they are insecure. To show the world and to prove to themselves that they are better than us, they would usually find faults on us and would criticize us for that. But to some, this become a habit or a normal behavior. Some say that it runs in the family and would take that as justification for their behavior. It is really hard to be with those kind of people but if you are in a workplace, that kind of person will never be out of the scene so we really have to learn how to deal with this kind of people.

There is nothing wrong with critique when it is needed, but I do agree that some people have to have their say at all times.

Ha-ha, I know criticizing people is not a good thing. But I cannot just help doing it when I see people doing something wrong or saying something bad around me. I know if criticizing does not help change their way of life, it is pointless to criticize. However, it is just such a shame seeing people doing all kinds of nasty things, saying bad stuff about others and so on and so forth. I just feel less stressed out by criticizing peoples behaviour and attitude which seem to me inappropriate.

I cannot stand people like that. I have come to see that people who criticize others or judge them have many skelteons in their closet and it makes them feel better to rip someone apart. I ended a long friendship because of being judged. I just had enough and i do not have time for people in my life who judge everything i do. Never judge someone for their actions till you walked in their shoes and make sure your sins are spotless. Thats what i live by,.

Yes, I agree. There are some people that just can't stop complaining about what other does. They are so busy criticying other people that they don't do much themselfes. And they are more like disturbing and falling on nerves than heping solve situation.

I agree whole heartedly with you about them zipping their lip and not talking ill of others. It makes me mad really because they really dont know what that persons life is and what they have been through. It also makes me think that if this is what these people say around me, what might they be saying about me when I am not around. I agree it is a waste of time that they could be using for something productive, like writing here on mylot!!

I hate people who constantly criticize. If they have a good point or are criticizing me for safety or something then OK. This may sound crazy but I firmly believe that there are people who are mean spirited or bored and criticize just because. That's not fair. I try to avoid hose type of people like that. However, sometimes avoidance is impossible. For those situations i let them know, I AM NOT THE ONE! If you think you're gonna come at me in any type of disrespectful manner, you picked the wrong chic. Unfortunately sometimes you have to take a stand. No matter how rude you think you sound. People really care for you will understand. I have no time for the misery of others. After all they say"Misery loves company"... Happy MyLotting dml:-)

I wonder what they are saying about me.

Well, I do think that there are some times that criticizing another person is something that is acceptable. However, I don't think that it is always acceptable to criticize other people. It really drives me nuts when you meet someone that is constantly criticizing the behavior of other people. The main person that I've known in my life that was like this was my grandmother, bless her heart, she loved to criticize people for things like having a lot of kids and things like this.

Hahaha. I'm the person who you are talking about. I sometimes criticizing other people, especially peoples around me. That's a shame! But I think that is normal. When you don't like what you have to let's the other people know it. I know nobody perfect, but why we must silent when the other people do the things we hate. Of course just when we sure we completely right we can critize. You know, there are some jobs that the worker just use their criticize ability. And maybe you know some worker do that work on TV show! Have a good day!

People tend to find out faults in and criticize others.Actually criticizing others is the easiest job for everyone.Critics don't see their own faults.They pick faults in others.I have also read a famous shlokaa in Sanskrit.It dubs such tendency as a fly tendency.Your whole body is neat and clean.Only one open wound is there somewhere on your body.A fly would never sit on the neat and clean parts of your body,it would sit on the open wound.Critics have the same tendency.They try to find our faults in others.But we should welcome being criticized.That way we can remove our negative qualities.