Is love worth dying for ?
By Angelpink
@Angelpink (4034)
Philippines
August 14, 2012 10:32am CST
When am a woman , a very complicated specie . When i love , i become selfless am forgetting the me and all in this mind is he ? I know this is not the desirable one , shall we say not a healthy one but what else i can do , i am slave to myself. I love for all the reason , i love for no reason and those reason were enough. I am telling you all , so lucky is that man whom i am loving so much . But i don't know if he sees and feels the way i am feeling. Sometimes , i am so hurt and in deepest pain that i come to ask myself , is love worth dying for ?
3 responses
@sbrn11 (415)
• India
14 Aug 12
If he really understands your love, loves u back, then yes, love is worth dying for, but for a person for whom your feelings and love does not matter, for such a person, it worthless. why to love a person who does not love you back???
but on the other hand, i think, even if he loves or not, you cant stop loving that person. its your heart who have selected him to love. every person has a right to select whom to love and whom not to. even if you love a person but he doesnt love you back, what can you do? you cannot force that person to love you? Can you???
Love is a beautiful feeling which should come through your heart .. not through your mind.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
14 Aug 12
Yes, love should not be forced nor can be force..if he doesn't let it be..Heart has a reason which reason itself doesn't know. Heart has its own mind , where in it's so hard to be dictated.
@Alsaket928 (1)
• Bangkok, Thailand
14 Aug 12
No we people can always find someone better and nicer to love
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
I believe so , it just take time and big patience and blessing from God.
@joankath29 (60)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
I do love the same way as you do angelpink. My friends would always say that my bf's are really lucky to have me for I love like there's no tomorrow. I wouldn't ne thinking of myself anymore cause all I do is think of him, on how he is doing, if he has taken his lunch or what. Before, I used to think that it is indeed the right thing to do. But when our relationship ended, there I then came to realize that it's not healthy at all cause you gave almost everything to him and it's like there's nothing left to you at all. You'd start to feel worthless and empty. So I think it would be alot better if you do think of yourself as well. Give yourself the same time and value that you are giving to him, so that if everything fails, you won't feel dumb, helpless and pathetic at all.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
I'll try , put some limits and yes rest assured love to myself is still there. Things just happen so strangely sometimes , that if not having strong foundation , will be shaken till we drop.Good Day !
@bdfreelancer (518)
•
14 Aug 12
Love is an emotional outburst of our feelings. Love can be expressed in many ways. You may love someone without ever telling them that you love them. True love is colourless, like water. When you possess true love you simply cannot live without it. It may hurt you, it may cause you a lot of pain but you cannot live without it. True love teaches us to forgive and forget. Love makes us stronger, it inspires us to live a meaningful life. Love transforms our inner-self for the best.
We love for reasons that may seem silly to us or others. Love does not follow any rule. It just happen. Love is beautiful.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
Wow , so beautiful thoughts , made me speechless..can't say or add more , you speak from within and perfectly. Words just moved me.. So nice to know that true love is colorless, only now i bump into this idea , thanks..thanks :)
