i hate rumors!!

I absolutely HATE rumors too. I am certainly sad to hear of this happening to you. I thought it would be because you folks are young. Hopefully as you get better known in the area the rumors will stop. So you are leaving? Well I hope you find a better place with less rummor starters.

Unbelieveable some people just have nothing better to do. Stay strong and don't let your anger get the best of you. You know you did nothing wrong and God knows and thats all that matters.

I think it is time to leave. If the wrong person actually believes this sH1t , the cops will be at your door! When will you move? I hope real soon.

Sounds like he should start a small engine repair business at home.

Why in the world would that guy say that. He might have made it up himself. I hate runoff too. They can kill and destroy the spirit of a person. I try not to listen and I try not to repeat something that is none of my business.

I never paid attention to rumours or bad comments about me or anything else. You will be a lot happier and will not be angry if you just do not pay attention to people talking. If you get angry and respond, you are only feeding the fire. Ignore them and they will stop. Live your life in your house with your family and be happy.

This guy who lives down the street should tell people the truth. If you knew who it was that started the rumors you could possibly have a law suit, as you could say they damage your business in the neighborhood.

what awful people they should all mind their own businesses.

*sighhhhh* Small things amuse small minds, huh? I'm really sorry that you and your family are the brunt of such stupid rumors. The neighborhood where I grew up was a quiet, pleasant one... but the lady next door to us was ridiculous. While her husband was at work, she literally sat or stood at her living room window, peeking through the curtains and watching anything and everything that was going on. She would start rumors about ANYTHING... people's kids, spouses, when service vehicles would be at someone's house "too often"... she even went around criticizing another neighbor for spending "too much time drinking coffee at everyone else's house instead of staying home and cleaning and cooking for her husband and family." Not sure how much of any of that SHE got done either, spending her days spying like she did You would walk past her house and always see the curtains move because she would hide and think no one saw her there. I know it's hard to ignore the rumors once you know they're happening. But, you know you're good people, so you have to keep that in your heart - and you all keep your heads held high when you're out and about your home! I would also make sure that the guy spreading the rumors gets a firm "NO" the next time he looks to your husband for help with something. If he asks why, TELL HIM. People like that need to get called out for their callous, thoughtless and often damaging behavior.

Funny how things like that do fly..one tells someone and it passes on with embellishments.....hopefully you can get out of the neighborhood soon....just hang in there.

Rumors are spread by vicious people with nothing better to do with their lives than gossip. So sorry that you and your family are going through this. I hope your hubby set the guy straight and let him know the real truth.

Most rumors are just rumors! Nothing more! Unfortunely like in your case the rumor is disgusting! People do that because they have nothing better to do! Then there are people who just do it to get back at other people! Like A revenge thing! Those people need a life! I am sure they would not be happy if they heard a rumor that was nasty! I am not saying to get revenge. I am just saying,these people can dish it out but couldn't handle it if it happen to them!

Many people are really into feeding rumors and gossip. Well maybe thay just have much garbage they wanna hid so they speak nasty things about others to cover up theirs.

GOOD MORNING! If I were you don't be so affected with the rumors it will just ruin everything, just stick with the right thing don't think about what people say as long as your doing the right thing and not manipulating anyone then let it be and go with your daily living. DON'T stuck with what people saying do your own way without thinking about there judgemental attitude. Believe in yourself.GOOD LUCK

Yes it doesn't take much for a rumor to start, some people thrive off of rumors and they love spreading them. I don't blame you for being excited to get out of there, I wouldn't want to be surrounded by people who see me as being the complete opposite than what I actually am either! I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let it bug you.

I feel the same way about where I live.. Many people here are rumor mongers. I've lived here about half of my life and I am still very reclusive to hide away from that sort of garbage. Sadly in my case, however, because of some legal issues.. I can say that for me and my children, it's only going to get worse. Best of luck!

That is just crazy and I hate rumors and people who gossip. I can't believe even that guy just went straight up to you and tell you something like that to your face. That is just crazy that he would even be so brave that even mention that. Some people really.

Some people are just jealous because they don't have what we have. They are so desperate that they couldn't be like us, so they try to ruin us by making false stories. All because of jealousy! I hate rumours too.

Neither do I People just talk what they want to talk , there's no rule how we should talk about something that haven't proven to be. It hurts so much, and people know that. But unfortunately, that is exactly a thing that usually happened . If I don't do that too I won't be a part of their socializing. And I choose to be not like them. Aren't I anti-social? Nah, it would be the next rumor q(-_-')p I'm so sorry to hear what happened to you. In moslem, a rumor is a big sin. We are asked to be sillent if we don't have something good to be said. My dad ever tought me a way to face the rumors was pretending that there's no something wrong and just go on as no one could stop you to be happy. But I admit it is so hard to do. Even I couldn't do what exactly my dad said today. I do hope the best for your. I believe in karma, they would be thought by the God how to treat people , how to not hurt them .

A wise person once told me that as long as you are alive and living your life well, so many critics will arise.Don't worry your life must be the envy of a person who think that they can enter into your life by annoying you.Live well and be happy and don't even waste your time trying to justify yourself to anyone and when they see you around happy and fulfilled then that is what will actually kill them inside.