I must give HER enough time......

I sometimes do not understand why couples need to have separate ways when they have a problem. I believe that during those times, couples should be with each other because it can make their relationship stronger. It is a part of the foundation of your relationship that you have to build along the way. This way they can learn how they would face and handle every problems that will come. Their experiences could make them grow and mature as a couple. By the way, are you guys still minor?

Sometimes you need to set someone free if that's their wish. If you both are meant to be together, I am sure someday both of you will still end up with each other despite all hindrances. Though I believe young people's mindset normally is to help their families first before entering married life. I guess that is also good. But most of the time, it becomes somewhat something that we regret when we only focus on career and then forget about love life. I just do hope that when she settled everything, you and her will end up together.

Well let's just say that what her parents want is security for their daughter that she would not suffer. That is a challenge for you if you are truly in love with her. You must prove to her parents that you will not put their daughter to a life they want for their daughter. So I guess instead to taking this negatively try use this as an inspiration for you to be better person and meet the expectation of the parents from their point.