what would you do if you caught your spouse in the act

If I caught my husband in the act for sure I will do my best to make him pay for what he have done. I am not doing to hurt him but I will sue him and let him lock in jail with his mistress until they pay for their mistakes.

OMG, that poor woman! I'd probably perform a Lorena Bobbit and chop off what he values most! But seriously, I'd have thrown them both out on the street naked. I'd not let him get off THAT easy. And I'd have destroyed ANYTHING that had something to do with him.

If I had been her, I would have pulled both of them out of the bed and beat the crap out of both of them starting with her. She would get her hair pulled out and if at all possible she would have some black eyes a bloody nose and a missing tooth if I could manage it then I would shove her @$$ out the door naked and commence with his @$$ whipping. After I was done with that I would clean out the bank accounts and kick him out. Of course I have seen other ways of handling the situation on fb recently. A married couple had the same problem. The husband was cheating with someone in their community. The wife had a huge sign made for their front yard that her husband and such and such had been having an affair. Public humiliation works too!

I would also cry. I wouldn't talk to him or I wouldn't see him for a while until I'm ready to face him. I will gather all my strength before facing him. I can't imagine what would happen on that day. I'll just pray that I won't catch him with another woman. Happy myLotting!

There's nothing much to do. Just try to master your emotion, be calm and when you feel that you can breath and talk while not crying then simply talk to him and ask him to leave. If he's not leaving after all then you better leave and forget him. What's the use of being together when you knew all along that he needs someone else and not you.

I would have done the same. I would have been really shocked and wouldn't be able to utter a single word. There's no way I would live with him anymore though. I wouldn't even dare look at his face. Yes, I would weep, but only for awhile. I would thank him then because that would make me find someone else better who deserves me. Just glad I wasn't married to an idiot like him.

Honestly, I would pack my things and have my name removed from the lease and start over. If my husband ever did that, I'd be gone and take all of the kids and pets with me. We have been married 6 years and been together 9.

That is so sad , I have seen these on TV but never actually know anyone who this has happen to . I would just be shocked and then maybe if I have any weapon I would do something real bad to them both . This can happen to anyone with an unfaithful partner , both male and female .

Well, I would just have to stay and not talk for a while. But pay thi bill's honey and dishes need to be done. And did I forget to tell you I was going out with the girls. I would do payback in dollars. Then if he changed fine if not got to go. But he would pay all my bills first. He wouldn't know that.

If it's just a girlfriend then i'll just leave and forget her. The problem is if we're married, it's harder to just leave because most of the time women will get everything even if she's the one that cheats. So if i'm married i probably never talk to her again but i will not divorced her. This is one of the problem that i cannot solve till this day. That's why i'm not married yet.