Development of a relationship
By pjha1975
@pjha1975 (214)
India
August 16, 2012 12:17pm CST
Friends, I am putting this question out to get your ideas & feedback about this scenario. If a guy & a girl are working together on a common project or some common goal in a company for a long period of time, do you think it is easy or natural for love will develop between the two?
If we look at a scenario in a school or college, suppose a guy & a girl are in the same classes or pursuing the same major, is love bound to happen? Will a relationship develop naturally between the two of them over a period of time??
Looking forward to your answers... :)
3 responses
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
16 Aug 12
if a boy and a girl are in close proximity for a longer period of time, there is a big possibility that love can develop between the two. because spending time with another, they learn more from each other. they understand their decisions and experiences. they accept their weaknesses and acknowledge their strengths. these are the stages leading to falling in love.
@luntian_grace (1373)
• Philippines
16 Aug 12
it happens... well it just that you spend a lot of time with each other... you discover things that you have in common and things that are different from each other. sometimes love at first sight don't happened it's how you spend time with each other...
@pjha1975 (214)
• India
17 Aug 12
Hi grace...
Yes, for sure spending a lot of time with each other outside the office or outside of school/college goes a long way in developing a strong relationship... Despite that, until & unless the feelings go both ways & there is that attraction, you would not want to spend a lot of time with each other. The two would just be happy with the fact that they are really good colleagues, classmates or friends...
Thanks for your response.
@sbrn11 (415)
• India
16 Aug 12
it all depends on how close they are.
in class, we had so many classmates, but we were not close to everyone. just a few selected friends only.
even if a guy and girl are working together, they may or may not love each other. some times is just professional relation only. but if u like each other, like spending time with each other, then may be yes, love can be developed between them
@pjha1975 (214)
• India
17 Aug 12
Hi sbrn11.
Well, I think there are two major factors in the scenarios above. One, there has to be good chemistry between the guy & the girl. If there is no chemistry, the two would just be friends.. Second, there has to be reciprocation. Love should never be one - sided... It cannot just develop automatically...
Thanks for your response.
