Why Do Problems Won't Leave Me
By ARIES1973
@ARIES1973 (11426)
Legaspi, Philippines
August 16, 2012 11:48pm CST
I haven't been able to solve my previous problems yet, here comes a new one. Yesterday, a new friend, an employee of the municipality invited me to a not so clear event. I thought we are just going on a nearby place within the municipality. It was too late when I have known that we will be going on the main city of the province which would take us almost an hour of travel. And added to my problem was that my cellphone was left at the office. I can not call my group to inform them where we are going. I was able to go home past ten in the evening and they were all worrying about me. I have known that they already informed the municipal employee incharge in human resource about what happened. I feel so sorry for being such a dumb person.
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22 responses
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
17 Aug 12
hi Aries,
why you alone was travelled to that place, if you does not have cell phone, have you does not any cell phone with the employee of the municipality, you can ask him and can call to your team, or even that person does not have cell phone,you can make a call to your team by a public phone, i do not accept for this,you have put your members in worry hours together.
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@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
18 Aug 12
hi Aries,
thanks for the response, due to hurry you may forgot to carry those numbers also,for your information,i am using my cell phone since 5 years, till now i have not missed my cell phone any where,that is in my pocket if i leave home, i never switched off it also, but your cause is like that,i am not blamming you, the thing happened like that ,have a nice day.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
I don't remember their numbers that is why I can not call them. Thank you yugasini for sharing your opinion.
@roberten (3128)
• United States
21 Aug 12
Everyone makes mistakes, just try not to make the same mistake twice. If your actions will effect others, make sure you explore all possibilities before you act. Establish a routine that will minimize errors. Always share your plans with a dependable person so your location is always known.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
21 Aug 12
I have to consider this suggestion roberten. Thank you very much!
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
19 Aug 12
I can but I don't remember their numbers. Those were saved in my phone. Thanks for sharing hsofyan!
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
oh..sorry to hear that.
calm yourself, we always have problem in life i know later we can overcome this, it just only trials given by god how can we handle it. don't be discourage, always think positive. god has plan to us for our success.
happy my lotting!!
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Thank you chum for sharing! Yes God always have a plan and we should never have a doubt. Have a nice day too! 
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
17 Aug 12
Hi friend, sad to hear that you are facing a lot of issues, don't worry all your problems will be solved in the near soon. Let's have a hope. Always keep your cell in your hands, it will be useful to you to avoid missing your cell
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Thank you friend for the reminder. I will see to it that I have my cellphone with me every time.
@favouredmost (256)
• Kenya
17 Aug 12
Don't worry about making the mistake as it is already done, every body once in a while will make the mistake of not planning well. Just talk to the hr and explain what happened and hope that he will understand and in the meantime don't beat yourself up since there is nothing that you can do to change it.Please you have to also stop conversing that problems will not leave you as what we converse is what we possess.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Thank you favouredmost for sharing. I will consider that suggestion. Welcome to myLot! I hope you have a great time here.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
If problems leave you, then life would not be boring, lol! Problems maybe stressful, but it keeps our minds busy to think, think and think, and find solutions to whatever that comes our way. Problems make or break us, but he important thing is that we learn to know more about ourselves, what we can do and what we cannot, learning from mistakes, and hopefully making us better persons.
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@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
Hi there! I always believe that God will never give us burden we can't handle. Everything happens for a reason. Though at times we can;t help but overwhelmed with the problems but you should trust God. I have been down just two weeks ago and those negative feelings almost ate me. But god is really good that He let me see that I am still lucky even with those problems I had. So, don't blame yourself. Trust God and what is important that you learn your lesson. God bless.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Hi shy! Your are right, everything happens for a reason. Thank you for reminding me.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
17 Aug 12
Thank you for the suggestion namiya. I hope everything will be okay.
@bLadeee (403)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
You're not the only one who has a lot of problems, or not only me, but everyone of us. Just don't let the problem control or ruin your life but instead make it a way to make yourself stronger. Problems are always on our life for us as a challenge or trial which teach us lessons which makes us stronger. Don't let yourself be carried away, don't tell yourself dumb, don't run away from your problem, face it, remember that whatever you do don't regret it, no matter how many times you fall you can always stand up.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Thank you bladee for sharing you thought regarding this matter. I hope everything will be okay until I finished my training. Yes I know that we all have problem.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
17 Aug 12
Mistakes happen with everyone and it is not that you have murdered someone in this case, but you just forgot. So stop being so little in esteem. You have to have high self esteem. You think that you have problems and you are dumb that is why bad things happen to you. Please I request you to watch the movie Secret. You will be transformed if you see the movie. hope you will stop saying dumb to yourself. have a wonderful day ahead.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Thank you riyauro for that wonderful response. I will watch that movie as soon as I'm done with my training. Have a nice day too!
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
17 Aug 12
Dear Aries,you are not a dumb person,everybody will make mistake sometimes,but I think no matter the situation is,you should take your cell phone along with yourself,without your cell phone it will cause many trouble especially if you will leave far away from your office,I always keep my cell phone when I go out,no matter it is for work or for vacation.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Thank you sky! I really do that, I just don't know what happened that I forgot it on that instance. It causes all the trouble.
@tariqahmad (29)
• Islamabad, Pakistan
17 Aug 12
Its true you care your group. Therefore you are too worried about. And the life is made for troubles don't worry.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Thank you tariqahmad for sharing your opinion. I will see to it that similar thing won't happen again. Welcome to myLot! Enjoy your stay!
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
17 Aug 12
Sometimes we do something foolish. But every foolish thing makes us cleverer. Do you think so? You can get experience from it . Don't blame yourself, it's not a big deal.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Aug 12
Thank you caopaopao for sharing your opinion. I know it's not a big deal for me. But they created a big trouble out of this. They are all over reacting. As if I am still a young girl. But I never told them that. I just keep it to myself but as I try to reconsider the situation, I never see anything to be worried about.
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
Well I guess before joining in when invited you should always try to know where you are going and also inform your co-workers where you are going as well so that in eventualities like these things then at least your co workers would know your whereabouts. I think that leaving cellphone is not advisable especially when traveling whether it be short and more so if traveling long distance. I guess it happened already and we all have to learn from it so that mistakes will be prevented.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
i hope wont say you are a dumb person as i always believe no one is...
we always have problems, it come and go and sometimes its a matter of how we deal with it.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
17 Aug 12
I just can't control myself. Why I actually went with that person and never asked where we are going. That's it. I caused lot of trouble to the group.
@chikahdorah (269)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
Sorry to hear that. You are not a dumb person. First, you have to calm yourself. Don't let negative thoughts in your mind completely. You have to understand that there are some things beyond our control. Some events cannot be stopped. What is important is you have learned your lesson and you are not doing it again.
I also suggest that before you go on trips, clear up everything first such as the place where you are supposed to go, the travel time, the people you will be travelling with, and who will pay the gas, seriously. Tomorrow is another day. You can do better things.
@dsw313 (320)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
Sometimes I am like that, I just go with the flow without realizing that it will be bad or will affect me. Sometimes, we should learn how to ask and say no, bcoz some people don't think of others.
Don't worry, just learn how to deal with it, we will always have problems, just be strong. :)
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
Take the problems in your life everyday as a medicine that you need to take in order to bacome stronger and be a better person in the future.
I guess everybody has it's own problem and yes, sometimes i also question that but it only matters in how we deal and react with it.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
17 Aug 12
Awww sorry to hear that. I can just imagine how bummed you are. You can't blame your friends if they worry about you, they just care so much. I'm sure you didn't mean for that to happen, not if you can avoid it. Well, crap happens. I'm sure you also learned from this experiene.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
17 Aug 12
I have no intention to make them worry. It's just that things happened that way.
