Stop! You're getting too personal

Normally, I used to discuss most of the topics except (s*x). Also, being personal is not an issue because here we don't know anyone much better and even talking here won't make any difference also. There are so many people come as man and man as women and we talk to them just assuming there is a person behind it, and nothing know more of them. At the most, there will ba an avatar picture and we cannot evaluate anything looking on the photo of a person. But from the 'trend' of discussion, we can make out much of the person's background like his depth knowledge, interest of topic etc. However, considering the activity what we do here, we can talk anything within the limits of restrictions initiated by myLot and the rest everything is depend on the person. Also, if someone is not intersted in follow-up with certain unwanted questions and discusison also explains how decent and what cultured they are. Nice topic. Good day!

It is probably due to the fact that they can ask you anything they like as they cannot see you in person. It is easy to ask to know about one's personal life that would be difficult to ask in face to face meeting. However, if you are only looking for some fun to pass time online and you come across people who want to get to know you in just a few minutes then that is annoying. I would not be interested in them to talk with any longer.

i understand you ^^ that happened to me too. mostly when you talk with guys. some always like to ask if you are virgin or not. i dont even reply. i mean thats a very personal thing that you shouldnt even ask. neither to people you know in person. i like to talk with some people online bcs some are funny and sweet. its always good to have friends but when someone starts to ask pervert things or too personal like if im virgin or not i dont like it. you better delete the person^^

Well, even I almost think like you. Actually, it's much more time I do not chat. However, when I did, I tried to talk about topical issues, a little of everything, but still very general way. I never wanted to go into the personal thread. Certain conversations, I could just keep them with close friends, maybe even knew personally. So I can perfectly understand your annoyance towards this person who would like to talk about things, perhaps too personal. My advice I can give is to try to make understand him do it politely. If this does not work, then let him alone.

Hi friend, i am also in your sort, not interested in sharing my personal information with unknown persons, if some of my online friends asking my personal information, i will avoid sharing it with them, as we don't know who is good and who is a fake person in online world, if still the person continue asking i will block them, as i am not interested in continuing friendship with an annoying person

I would tell him I don't like to discuss such stuffs and so I must leave.

Ignore and leave.

I had someone do that to me on Facebook. It was a stranger who added me for games, and not someone I knew in real life. I answered all his questions with either lies or insanity. Or insane lies. I gave out fake personal information, pretended to misunderstand all his questions, and claimed to believe in stupid things. I do the same thing to brats who hit on me in games.

hi, in chatting in yahoo messenger and other chat application i don't usually tell about my personal life because as you said i don't know the person and i only met him/her in chatting,and if the conversation will go through that topic i will ignore that person and not to chat with him.

I will leave and ignore him,it is impolite to ask other people's personal questions,it is rude,unfortunately,it is very common,many people,including my boss,like to explore other people's privacy,which make people very uncomfortable,when my boss ask my personal questions,i choose to silence,then he bored and walk away,hehe,i don't like to ask other people's personal questions,i also wish that other people will not ask my privacy!

I won't give them any affection for i respect any of their own opinion whether it is something bad or good.In this kind of site you have to be open-minded in accepting other opinions.Maybe i will just just to be strong enough in order to be ready of any criticism..

From what you wrote, I can feel he is not a very good man, at least he is not the man we should show respect . You are doing right, we should never pay attention to people who annoyed us. If I were you , I would add him in my black list. I don't know whether you can do it on your massenger.

i think ignoring him is good thing he will soon give up. some people are comfortable to discuss their personal life to strangers and others are not maybe he is and you are not and that is not your problem that he is

There are millions of other people to talk to - dump and ignore him. Block if possible. Guys see any discussion as flirting, especially if you respond to some of these personal things - girls don't. Do not encourage, do not respond. Get out of there and teach him a lesson.

If they are really persistent, then tell them that you're not going to tell them any information about yourself. They should stop asking you too personal questions. When you can't endure it, then it's better to shop conversing with them. Say goodbye, then leave. Happy myLotting!

I do chat with friends, relatives and my kids/grand kids using YM, I never visit the chat rooms, i have very close friends from Davao, Cebu and Manila, some from USA too. If you don't like some one, you can delete; if he keeps adding, just block

There are a lot of annoying people out there in this world. My suggestion would be simply to just ignore him. Alternatively, you should just tell him to keep his distance and not ask unessential questions. Therefore, he will get the message. As a result, he will not bother you any more.

I just usually ignore and not reply anymore. Or if I'm really annoyed I block the person from sending me any more messages. lol Works like a charm.

First I try to change the topic of the conversation but if he's still persistent on pushing with the personal stuff, I just keep silent for a moment then logged out. I don't like guys who are too forward especially if it's through chat.

i wonder why some people go to a bowling alley but they want to swim, is there no site for ''chatting and personalizing'' to max?