Hard to say goodbye.
By Angelpink
@Angelpink (4034)
Philippines
August 17, 2012 12:46pm CST
Why is so hard to say goodbye to our friends ? You are not that close but still when you say goodbye it is so hard , there is still that ache ,though you got no relationship or no romantic thing for them but still your eyes would be teary as you close those doors. Sometimes i said to myself , i'll never make friends better to be alone so there would be no one to bid our goodbye..
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8 responses
@lampar (7584)
• United States
17 Aug 12
I assume GOODBYE is an expressive word for a very long term departure between friends if not forever. That is why you have the feeling of sadness inside your heart. I wound tear up too if i would have to tell my friend even though not a buddy the word 'goodbye', it means i may have to miss him/her for a long time in the days ahead. It is one of the hardest word that i can utter to any friend of mine.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
So very true , the word which we hated to utter nor to hear but sometimes because of compulsion , no choice for us but to say it.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
So sorry to hear this friend ! Anyways up there he will be watching you.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
21 Dec 12
hi,
yes,its true that saying goodbye to someone is really hard and will really makes you tear because of sadness,actually when i say goodbye to my sister always makes me cry because it will makes me sad because i will leave them again.and to my friends also hard to say that because i will miss there bonding for sure.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
It is the most difficult word to utter . It is just one word but it speaks a volume.
It gives a twist and turn of life.
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
19 Aug 12
i hate someone is leaving,and saying goodbye but it depends to a person.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
So painful to see someone waving his hands for the last time. It will really break us emotionally and spiritually . Only few can manage this kind of situation and they are just so lucky , their heart won't bleed and break. Hope all people will be like those few who are so strong .
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
18 Aug 12
I feel the totally same with you coz yes,we need friendship and it's hard to say goodbye,that has been touched the softest place in our heart and we need friends to make us feel better about life,we are not alone.You still need them to make your life happier.No one is an isoland and that's for sure.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
True , no man can live alone , we all need our fellows ! We need someone to talk with , to interact and argue sometimes so we will grow.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
hi!!
its really hard to say goodbye to your friend because we have already attachment with them. sometimes i never say goodbye to them i just told myself i will come back and meet them again. if i say goodbye my eyes want to cry and my friend also. instead of goodbye i just hug them and say i miss you all and hope to see you soon,.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
Yes it is the attachment that can hardy be cut ! We have emotional investment that deeply rooted in our heart and mind .
@tetris15 (539)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
I guess what you are feeling when saying goodbye to a friend is not really ache. You are not hurt, instead you feel lonely because your friend has to go and you will be left behind or vice versa. The attachment you made with a friend makes you miss him/her and that feeling alone makes you lonely. You feel that the story has ended between the two of you and there's no way both of you can continue. This is usually what we feel when we watch a good movie. We wish that the story won't end. We wish for another chapter or we hope for a happy ending. Sad to say, life has to go on without your friend who bid you goodbye.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
True life has to go og , sail and met more ahead. Life is simply like this , a touch and a go..
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
22 Dec 12
Absolutely its hard to say Good Bye to friends as we so much attached to them that just thinking of leaving them give us fear sometimes. It has happened with me in the past when many of my friends went to some other place for job and have been far away right now it really makes me sad.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
That's because you already had an attachment with them. I sometimes also don't wanna be too attached to someone because when they've been taken away from me or they left, I would really feel so sad because I know I would missed their presence or even their regular messages. But we have no control of our feelings, when we met and liked someone - we make the most of our time with them, hanging out and talking about every thing even nonsense things.