Surrounded by a not so good environment!

Oh I felt that before and I wanted to move out. But then God showed me the way out and from then I realized God has always a better plan. It has a purpose why you are in that situation now. Just trust God that everything will be okay.

Hi luisadannointed! Oh! Sorry to hear that but I hope everything's fine now since this discussion of yours is way back 8 months ago. Well, just ignore negative or toxic people and pray for them to be happy in life. Stay as positive as you can so you can slowly transfer that good vibes to them. We will meet those kind of people as we go along in life. We don't have control of them but we have a complete control on how to deal with them. Stay away as much as you can from them and surround yourself with optimistic people. It's stressful if we let them in. Have a great day! By the way, I can't send message to you until now here since you haven't accepted my friend request.

I do have same environment the last 15 years with my ex, the people that surrounds us are the worst people I knew in my life. But since I never grew up in that kind of scene I keep my self away from them. I do talk to them but not that much I still believe less talk less mistake so nobody will take a word against me when I stay away from them. They do make so many bad gossip about me but I never do the same I never fight or talk about that until they stop but sometimes they still doing it. Until I decided to left my ex because of them also the people around us has a very bad influenced into my husband because it his relatives. I just left and go on my way, now I'm in peace. Fighting is not a solution don't mind them it is a waste of time just do what makes you happy and showed them that you are not affected to what they are saying to you.

I constantly have that kind of environment around me and the fact is that these people are so fat headed they don't care or realize they are doing it. Just go on their usual ways about it and just forget how I feel, etc. I think some people were born with little brains in their heads and the passed them onto whoever they don't like around them. I'm not being mean or disgusting, in fact I'm quite the opposite in real life, it's these people who do or say these things in my life that drive me to the point of anger, etc. I could be having a great day and someone else's mood gets bad cause something minor isn't going their way and they just make you feel 2 inches tall. How am I supposed to act towards that. Crazy people in my family, I tell ya. The the hypocrites accuses me of something they do during the whole argument when I try to defend myself, just insane.

There are little people who live in a pure environment without hypocrite,it is very common,all we should do is to keep distance with them and do the things that you think right,don't influence by them,when they force you to do something,you should resist and never yield.

Hi friend, sad to hear about your environment, it is really hard to live with bad people, don't worry your heart is impure, you have the ability to keep your heart in a pure manner even though you are surrounded by bad people. Our life is in our hands, i agree surrounding playing an important role in our life, but some good persons are come out from a bad environment, why don't you think about this? Let's be positive and try your maximum to change your environment with your positive attitude and activities