Is it Ok to have a crush even if your in a relationship?

Philippines
August 20, 2012 12:57am CST
I've read an article about this issue saying that even if it feels like the worst thing in the world, it really isn't.Why? Here are the reasons:We can't help who we are attracted to, It gives you many break from the stresses of daily life & It makes you feel happy. I read all the comments about this and its like everyone disagree with it? Are you? feel free to share ^_^
2 responses
snrm007
@snrm007 (224)
• United States
20 Aug 12
It depends what kind of relationship. I would say as long as your not married or engaged then it is perfectly fine and normal as long as you don't actually act on that crush while you are still in your current relationship.
sweetpea flur
@Jezabeth (82)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
But isn't it unfair to your partner also? Your crushing and admiring another person yet your partner only adores you.
snrm007
@snrm007 (224)
• United States
20 Aug 12
You can't be sure if your partner only adores you. We all have irrational thoughts in our head but as long as we keep them in our head I think it is OK.
Jkct02
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
20 Aug 12
Having a crush is not something we can control, whether one is in a relationship or not. But we can control ourselves whether to act on that crush. There are a lot of stimulants in this world to provoke instinctive responses from us. If we are living under a social order that tells us it is wrong to act on the crush while we are in a relationship, then we should not act on it.